Guys, would you give up porn if your partner was uncomfortable with it?

[Anonymous]

[lucas262]

Yes I would

Only reason itd be hard is the same reason id find it hard not to appreciate feminine beauty irl but the idea of being totally dependent on my girl for sex, arousal etc makes me very vulnerable but builds Somthing else there i think gives her a responsibility and in a sense she has to protect me, because the world is set up to catch a mans eyes since we're very visual creatures its almost unfair

[Anonymous]

Porn is so pointless, it’s looking at someone you don’t know and how no real physical intimacy with. Obviously the real thing being my girlfriend is valued much much much more so yes.

[AustinMan]

We'd watch it together.

[Asker]

Would you still think about your partner or is all your attention and sexual energy going into the girl on screen?

[AustinMan]

It's all focused on her. I like to narrate a bit like asking her what that girl is doing to him or vice versa. Generally gets her all turned on.

[theguyghail]

Porn is perfectly fine but should be second option, if your partner doesn't feel like having adult fun time but you do, porn.

But if you go to porn before your partner then, youve a problem.

[Drowningkingfish]

Its 2020 I identify as a porn star, I'm just doing my job.

[ecfresh]

Probably not. How about you? Would you give up erotica or books/novels?

[MotorcycleMan]

For me it's not even about the porn. I would just find it difficult to modify my innocent behavior based on someone's insecurities. Feels a bit controlling.
For the record, I feel that watching porn is a simple, healthy fantasy.
One thing that people should understand is that just because I look at something, doesn't mean I want it. I've been driving down the road and looked at a pedestrian only to have my (jealous) girlfriend say "Oh, you like her big tits?" When the truth is, I was just thinking "that's a weird shirt", or just looking at someone walking down the road, whoever it happens to be.

[R4vedave]

Probably not. That's a sign of massive insecurity, which will probably lead to additional issues down the line. So either they'd need an extremely good explanation for why they want me to give it up, otherwise the relationship would probably be over.

[Asker]

You would dump someone for simply asking you to stop watching porn? Wow. It must be a very important thing in your life. If you didn't want to give it up you could simply explain to them your reasoning and why they shouldn't be upset or take offense. You could compromise or communicate.

[slatyb]

I would give up the partnership. We're not compatible.

[American_Centurion]

Porn is the devil

[Requ1m]

First, I would ask why they are uncomfortable with it. If I understand they're reasoning, we are more likely to come to a compromise that addresses the actual issue of why that bothers them.

[Reaperbot666]

I would do my best to give up porn. if my spouse did not enjoy me watching it. however it them falls on them. to help keep my sex drive and arousal in check. if their unwilling to have sex with me that often or at all. then good chance I might slip back into watching porn now and then. rather then going out and physically cheating on them instead. same with vice versa

I don't typically watch live action however. mostly anime, manga or hentai comix and videos.

[nodnol32]

With the right person, porn becomes easy to let go.

[Asker]

Agreed

[BlessedDaddy]

No, is there something in the contract that says she has to watch with me? What if I am uncomfortable with someone who doesn't watch it? What then? Let people be themselves. You don't own them.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

Only if i can have sex when ever i want.

[Browneye57]

"Uncomfortable"? It's a fail for a lot of reasons, but I've never heard 'uncomfortable'.
If you don't like it, tell him. Jerking off to porn instead of doing you is a giant red flag.
Or are you going to tell us you're not having sex with him?

[Asker]

Of course I have sex with him.

[DamnSam]

Actual no

But I need to say that most who come up with this got a pretty strange imagination about what they dont know

So, I showed my girlfriend the kind of porn im watching... surprise surprise, she found kinks she didn't know exist, and she found a few new kinks of herself she didn't know...

Not all, but I would say about a third of porn you can use as sexual education about things you can nobody ask about...

[Grond21]

I think it's very important to quit porn. It's highly destructive in a relationship.

The problem is, even if the guy wants to, it doesn't mean he will. Porn is highly addictive and can be extremely difficult to quit. So if you ask him to and he agrees, expect him to fail. If he's trying it on his own that is. It happens with most addicts. But if he gets help then he can have a good chance of successfully quitting it

[Thatsamazing]

Um no, I wouldn't, because I'm not a moron or a beta. And if she did ask, I would tell her to kindly read this: Girl-- your guy is going to watch porn... Get over it.

[Asker]

I've known plenty of guys who do not watch porn. Some of which have no reason to lie to me because they are either family or friends, or GAG users. Some men are just different and get pleasure from intamcy. And some men can still be Alpha and respect their womans standards. There are plenty of women who dont care, and plenty of women that do. There is also plenty of men who dont watch and plenty who do.. as well as plenty of people who can give up somthing so frivolous out of love. Most of the time, a girl doesn't want her man watching porn because she wants to build intamcy between themselves and feel like she has the full responsibility of taking care of her mans needs. Its not necessarily a selfish thing. Its because they care too much to let anything get in the way that could potentially hurt or neglect a relationship. They want to be everything for you.. its not all out of control. They just want to make you happy in every way and gets upset that somthing may take that place of how they show their love.

[Thatsamazing]

It's not "Respecting your standards," chick-- you get to respect his standards too. Respect doesn't work that way. It's not like you get to say "oh do this for me, no matter what it is or whether it's reasonable or not, and if you don't, you clearly just don't respect me." That's fucking stupid. "They want to be everything for you." Yeah-- and you should feel the same way. And if he wants to watch porn because he's sexually frustrated, that's his prerogative. Get your head out of your ass. "Its not necessarily a selfish thing." Yes it is. "Its because they care too much" No it isn't.

[Asker]

Okay well thank you for sharing your opinion. Even though we have different views. I appreciate it.

[PureHuman]

I don't watch porn at all.
wbu?

[Asker]

No. But I think that is a very awesome and attractive trait for a guy to not watch it. Good for you 😁 my boyfriend doesn't either, and I think its a rarity and believe it or not a lot of girls will think you're one of a kind and honorable.

[PureHuman]

wow. you are also very kind and honorable cause you also don't watch porn.

[Asker]

Well thank you!

[PureHuman]

but I have a bad habit. but I don't wanna tell here.

[PureHuman]

if you wanna know, then I can tell, but only in PMs.

[PureHuman]

but I can tell that I love boobs a lot. lmaooo

[PureHuman]

why you blocked me?

[PureHuman]

I didn't say anything bad or creepy or weird.

[PureHuman]

tell me?

[Trooper205]

Absolutely! Porn is NOTHING compared to my Perfect Woman!

[ccal28]

Of course, it pales in comparison to the real thing