How can intercourse feel good for women if most of the sensitivity is in the clitoris?

I'm a virgin and I don't understand how women get any pleasure from intercourse. It makes sense how so many women can't orgasm from intercourse alone

It's one thing to say that you're closer to your partner or whatever but I'm talking about actual physical pleasure. I guess women that have a g spot would be an exception but they seem to be a minority.
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  • As your aware the clitoris extends further into your body wrapping around the vagina to some degree.

    The sensetivity of the clitoris varies from woman to woman meaning some need direct stimulation of the clit. But for some women this can be too intense so they rely on indirect stimulation which is what you get from penetration.
    The penis sliding in and out applies pressure to the clit internally insulated by the walls of the vagina. Penetration also pulls on the clitoral hood making it apply the stimulation to the clit.

    Again this all varies between women and is all affected by how turned on you are and if you are well lubricated.
    Not forgetting that the mind is the most important sex organ so a preference over the intimacy of penetration might be more arousing.

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  • Its true that some women can't reach orgasm from penetration alone, but the clitoris is much bigger. It goes all around the vagine in a upside down V-shape.

    And even if they can't orgasm they still feel pleasure, at least from what i've heard 🤷‍♂️

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  • Everyone’s body is different, and reacts differently to different stimulation. I have known girls who can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation, and I have known girls who can get there without even taking their pants off. You need to experiment with your body and find out what it likes and doesn’t like. Keep in mind that unless a guy has a seriously crooked dick he isn’t going to hit the G spot with it not properly at least.

    Also, I feel like your idea of sexual intercourse is restricted to vaginal penetration which is extremely restricting.

    • Of course I know that sex spans different things like anal for example. I wasn't asking about that.

    • Anal is overrated and overdone mostly for porn to satisfy guys with an ass fetish. I’m talking about actual, pleasurable sex.

    • I think anal is a perversion anyway. I just said that because you said you feel like my idea of sexual intercourse is restricted to vaginal penetration. I know there are other ways that people have sex. I just never understood how vaginal penetration could even feel good for women.

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  • Once you get used to having something inside of you, having vaginal intercourse can be very pleasurable. The vagina is sensitive to pleasure as well as the clitoris, but a there are a lot of positions that can stimulate both. That’s why it’s great to experiment!

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  • The tissue for the clit is much larger than just that nub under the hood. It wraps around the vagina. Google it.

    • Yeah, I'm already aware of that but still

    • But still what. I have one absolutely sure shot was to make sure she cums like a house afire.

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    • I don't know what you just said

  • External stimulation is (I'm told; I obviously don't know firsthand) where the majority of female pleasure comes from, but remember that the majority of the clitoris is internal. Most of the tissue that would form the shaft of the penis is reworked (or, rather, not reworked) into the clit instead. You can find more detailed information in anatomy textbooks.

    • I already know about that.

  • Girls may not cum but enjoy it anyway. This is because there is much more to your clit than the body and glans.

    How can intercourse feel good for women if most of the sensitivity is in the clitoris?

    There is an approach to intercourse which can stimulate the clit and also be non-penetrating. Go into Bing (not Google) video and key in "cameltoe slide". For some women, this can be better than intercourse. He pleasures the entire length of the "bulbs" and slides over the clit. Pretty good.

  • Because most men have no idea what they are doing in bed and also most men are not well endowed.

    I I know where the gspot and a spots are. and yes women have intense orgasms when i hit those spots.

    I have also met women because of my size who refuse to focus on their clit when they have sex with me. At 8 inches long they get agressive and demand that I pound them deep. for whatever reason there are some women who have discovered the pleasure of those deep nerve endings and the sensations of deep penetration.. especially the a spot. some women are relaxed enough and get pleasure with the cervix gettting massaged deep. it sounds crazy for some. but when a woman is super wet and lubricated that deep penetration makes her cum sooo hard.

  • As the cock thrusts back and forth it "pulls" on your clit to stimulate it.

  • You will understand once you do it later on. You have to feel good to think it will be pleasurable experience

    • I don't think I ever want to do it

    • One day when you marry you will understand

    • I'm not getting married dude.

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  • The feeling of fullness (that's why bigger size penises tend to feel better for women) and the overall position, I mean the guy can stimulate her clit while penetrating her. Sex is not all about the penetration anyways, the nature of the relation between a man and a woman and the closeness to her partner (physical and emotional) can play a huge role.

  • I dunno. I still make my gfs cream on my dick and tremble in orgasm. I work them up and I'm thick.

  • Some girls can cum from penetration alone. They can cum from clitoral stimulation as well too though.

  • Every woman I've ever been with has orgasmed from vaginal

    • You sure they didn't just lie to you...

    • Fair question. I'm not giving you a number, because this isn't about body count. I could see one or maybe two lying; but multiple women? All women? Also, if they weren't having orgasms, or possible thought the sex wasn't great, why would they come back for more?

    • Well you didn't say you had repeat partners, I guess they liked something about it then

  • Because during intercourse most women receive clit stimulation. So intercourse just adds a fraction. I prefer clit without intercourse.

  • As I know that clitoris is much bigger than we things. We can see only small part of it, the bigger part of is is hiding deeper

  • You have nerve endings in the first inch of your vagina; plus that is where the G-spot is at. It might not be as easy to orgasm from vaginal sex; but it should be possible.

  • There are three main types of female orgasm.
    The clit can be stimulated by intercourse of the guy shifts himself up during missionary so the penis is aiming downward. But the clitoral orgasm is shorter, sharper, and more local to the genital area.

    Vaginal orgasm can occur if the females is mentally aroused properly as well as physically. It is softer, longer, and more full body.

    Then if the male is using the right angles during penetration, the penis can hit the g-spot, the a-spot, and cause other orgasms which are more explosive.

    Making women have orgasms when they thought they couldn’t has always been my favourite thing. It’s easy and I love the reactions.