Would you date/marry a girl that refused to give oral?

I went to my friends bachelorette party this past weekend and there’s always one girl in the group that thinks oral is disgusting. Real party pleaser anyways she lost in all the sexual games we played lol
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  • I've always been able convince them to try it and they loved it.

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    • Some girls refuse and this girl literally said she would never try it she’d break up if they kept asking.

    • I had one like that but it turns out that she was very submissive sexually and loved erotic pain so I just spanked her long and hard on the bare until she begged to go down on it with style, grace and most importantly exceptional enthusiasm.

    • Agree with your answers, especially the one below. In my experience, when a woman declares a sexual "won't do," she's signaling a fear of becoming too slutty, too hedonistic. Our society still sends lots of contradictory signals. Most guys I know are reluctant to date virgins because "there must be something weird with her." But they also marvel at the woman who really meant it when she said, "no strings attached." Anyhow, AustinMan is on to something when he points to openly talking about sex, followed by fulfilling a closely held fantasy of hers. Trust is the foundation of real intimacy. Once there, its all about pleasing your partner instead of worrying about rules you learned from other people.

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  • I happily dated a girl who COULDN'T give oral - she had really bad TMJ and she had a few incidents just eating food that were really tough to deal with, and I totally understood. She felt horribly and was willing to do literally anything else. The key, though, is that she had a positive attitude about the whole thing, and a legit reason not to give BJs, etc.

    It would be a completely different issue if the girl simply refused "because reasons."

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  • I honestly don't know, seems like a bummer but never been in that situation so don't know. I think she should at least give it a shot without preexisting thoughts and then decide what she thinks.

    Anyhow I'm curious as to what games you're talking about?

  • If she thinks oral is disgusting, imagine how wild she is in bed. LOL

  • I could live without oral sex, but. . . if she thinks oral sex is disgusting, she is likely to be inhibited in many other areas and she might just be an unhappy or even a miserable person.

  • it depends on other skills she may have, but if somethings as simple as a blow job is considered disgusting, what else is she uptight about?

  • Nope

  • Ain't no way. Too many women in this world love doing it to be with one who won't do it.

  • Oral isn't that important to me, but still it doesn't seem fair. I'm someone who loves giving oral, and requires physical affection to feel loved. To completely reject that activity would give me the idea that my spouse is repulsed by my penis... I have to take that as an insult. There's no way around it for me

  • Yea, if the guy has never done it they won't miss it

  • Well... she knows what she doesn't like, and that can be a good thing.

    Don't like oral myself, giving or receiving, and it's never really been an issue for me.

  • ever?
    that is a tough one.

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