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I believe I was 17 years old when I started to experiment with anal. I had no idea what I was doing but I did go with something small and short cuz I didn't want to hurt myself. I did enjoy it but I enjoy it a lot more now as an adult in my current relationship.
When I wanted to participate in anal with my current man I did a lot of research into it because my previous experience with a man did not go well. In order for anal to go well with a partner it has to be a person you trust and someone who will listen to you and go slow. But that's not what this post is about.
Here are steps you might want to take when experimenting with anal for the first time:
I wish you the best of luck.
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You technically could've tried it anytime. Those butt plug sets that start small and gradually bigger seem like a safe place to start. Avoid using toys made of plastics and silicons. Steel and glass are the best materials for butt stuff.
Right. Also try regular sex and oral sex with the plugs in. It makes the connections obvious.
Start practising with thin dildos / vibes and don't push too hard / far. Work your way up in thickness until you can comfortably fit dildos a little thicker than your partners penis.
Use lubricant. If you are using condoms only use special lube that has been proven not to damage them.
If you want to use a clyster to clean you colon before sex, never use plain water, it will make the mucosa more vulnerable. Use isotonic saline solution, you will find tutorials on the net. Some oils may work as well but be careful with that, they may irritate the skin and also damage condoms.
It takes some practise to relax the sphincter. Small careful steps are best to keep things pleasent. You may also want to try inserting a dildo into your boyfriend. While he may not like the idea, it is actually pretty hot for men if done well. But the main reason I suggest he gets some anal too is so he knows how sensitive that area is and that he truly realises how careful he needs to be.
It's probably better if you try it when you're 18 as apposed to later because your body is more elastic. You actually have a nerve that goes from your clitoris, to your anus. Plus on top of that the vaginal wall separating your vaginal canal from your anal cavity is very thin. In other words you can stimulate your vagina by having anal sex. You'll probably also find that it's a lot easier for you to come because there's nothing blocking it while still being stimulated at the same time. Make sure you use a lot of lube, try to relax as much as you can, and make sure that whoever you choose to do it with for the first time knows what they're doing. It's not just something that you can jam it and expect to work.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!What a lovely lady! You are certainly old enough. Here're some ideas on how to do it more comfortably.
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Don’t try things just because your friends do it. Unless you are wanting it, don’t do it.
I mean, it depends on which country you are from and also your religion, in some countries you can't have sex till you are over 20 but in others the legal age is 18.
Over in England though, I think it is 16...
By 18 you are an adult, but also a teenager, so I think people put in the rule of no sex till you are an adult because if you end up pregnant you will not be able to support the child, which won't happen if you are doing anal.
In other religions there is no sex till marriage, no sex unless the parents give permission, and I am sure there are others with much stricter rules.
So it really depends on your religion and country. I don't know enough about Romania to know their rules on when is the legal time to have sex.
15 in romania with some exceptions
@wankiam Cheers man :) in that case it seems well within legal age to do so ^_^
Why not, try it. If you want to try then try it.
If you can shit you can do anal
I am starting to like you a lot...
sodomy is considered illegal in most places, but what you do in private and not tell anyone about will be ok...
as long as you are consentual, anal wouldn't be a problem at any age, as long as whatever you are using isn't too big to fit...
and there is no toy anywhere that feels as good as a real dick... so do whatever it is you want to do and have fun doing it...
Have you had sex do you have sex do you enjoy it ~do you have a good partner is yes to any of theses. Then it's your choice if you hsve a good lover you will like it
Your definitely old enough at 18 but why would you want to is the question just because people you know have?
Well you can try any kind of sex in 18, but personally I don't recommend anal, most girls are not really enjoying it, and they are doing it mostly because their guy is demanding that.
I see no problem with you trying it.
Just go slow, start with one finger, communicate, if it hurts at all tell him to stop in place and wait for it to not hurt before continuing.
Use plenty of lube.
Dont rush, first time for sure might take some time before you can get to penile insertion.
Some people like it to hurt but it dosent have too. You can start slow and have no pain.
Definitely try anal as soon as possible. Start with toys and lots of lube. Before you do it with a guy you need an enema. Sper sa ai succes ;)
Ma bucur sa vad ca nu sunt singura româncă căreia ii place mult sexul
Just go for it I guess
you can try it whenever you want, as long as you are legal age of consent and you have a partner who is open to try it, my only advice would be to
1) make sure you are with someone you trust 100%
2) dont rush things
3) prepare yourself first
4) use plenty of lube
5) enjoy yourselves
it may feel a bit weird at first even for those who want to try it but that feeling will pass
Why not?
Me personally i think you should if you want to.
Every girl wants to -- with the right guy -- at the right time. It is a very natural and strong urge.
Of course you can. If you are doing it with a guy, use a condom to prevent StD transmission.
Sex toys? Lube is critical. Silicone dildos of various sizes could be good for practice. Use a water-based lube with silicone. There's plenty of online instruction.
Use lube and go slowly.
Yes, just don't ask your parents or uncles to help...
Seriously though, if your lover is up for it, then take it slow and use lots of lube and rubber up.
Best not to eat any bran foods for a couple of days before, and maybe even get an enema day before, if either of you are grossed out by poop as your first time, there will likely be a lot of "drop out" if you've not prepared beforehand.
Since you are 18 just do if you are curious.
do whatever you want. i’ve personally never tried it but if it’s something you’re interested in go for it
OK. But something tells me you are very curious about it. At least, the tongue in bum thing. Ya?
The fact that you never tried it before is the reason why it's going to hurt the first few times. You're 18, of course you're not too young to try it.
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