I gave a detailed answer here:
Guys if you really like a girl and she has sex with you on the first date, would you lose interest in her?
Had first date sex a few times in my younger days, and it's not like you're going looking for it - it's just something that dates can lead up to.
A relationship is something you maintain and can keep going as it benefits you both. A quick hookup (which is what you're thinking about) is something you both see as something you fulfil when nothing better is going at the time.
Hence it's like the frozen pizza in the oven, for when you can't be bothered (or can't afford) to make a proper meal.
I think that’s a stigma we worry about so much, like if we put out too soon, then guys will instantly devalue us and no longer think we are girlfriend/wife material. When in reality, it doesn’t matter when you have sex with a guy, it’s about what his intentions for you are and what they have truly been all along. If he sees potential with you, then it won’t matter how soon you do it, you’re a keeper regardless.
Not all guys will devalue you, but a lot will, especially the hot shallow ones who can get sex easily with relatively little effort. Quiet geeky guys are less likely to do this cause they’ll be more grateful to you for giving them sex at all. This may sound sexist but in my experience it’s true.
@gwenhwyfar it’s always interesting to hear the experiences other women are having on the journeys while dating. For me, I’ve been hurt by both, and less shallow in times where it wouldn’t have mattered anyway. I’ve had the hot guy who I was so certain would use me, and ended up being the best boyfriend I’ve had. And I’ve also dated the massively geeky guy, who seemed sweet and to an extent he was, but ended up disappointing me just as bad as any other guy. All that to say, the labels don’t matter, and our assumptions of what a person should be because of their exterior are often further from true than we ever would’ve thought. It’s all about the person, and what they truly want, and in turn, are willing to give.
*on their journeys
Most guys just keep girls who have sex or give head on the first date around for when they get horny.
Girl, listen. If you’re that horny just rub off after he leaves. Wait till the third date for oral.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Every girl I've slept with on the first date usually got dropped by date 3 or 4.
Every girl I waited at least a few weeks or 3+ dates were longer term dates. Even married one I didn't sleep with until our 4th or 5th date. Boys like to fuck easy girls. Men like to marry classy girls.
If it's our first date and things start to happen and they do and it is really good sex even if not I woukd see her a one in I like a girl that is bold and does something because she wants to for me to have or not have a second date has nothing to do with having or not having sex
if the date went great and we really connected and that we wanted to see each other again sure, i would be ok with it all but we'd have had to gotten to know each other better though over time beforehand
only issue i would have is if her decision to have sex on first date resulted in her ghosting after... cos i want a long term relationship not a one night stand
That would depend on the other person if the other person thinks that's how the female is during all relationships then that's probably a very bad thing and quickly to be forgotten if on the other hand they're fairly sure that she's never done anything like this and never would do anything like this normally then it can be quite the turn on
I think this is okay. No need to stop dating then if it felt good. If you have sex on 1st date or not doesn't say anything about the girl execpt she's openminded. For me this a big plus in a relationship
Never had the opportunity to be with a girl that comfortable with sex. I don't think I'd have sex on the first date, but if she wanted to or gave me head, I'd date her. But not just because of that. I see it as a plus, not a reason.
To me that would depend on the conversation how we clicked both in and out of the bed... As far as having sex being a deal breaker for me? not even.
Depends on how we connected.
You're 18 and fucking every guy you go out with?
It wasn't for me, but YMMV.
Differs on each guy some want more, some might keep you around for the sex, up to you
Depends on the sex. 😂
I'm not even the kind of guy to kiss a girl on a first date, but that's just me.
If the sex was good she's will not be forgotten
Sorry but at 18 his got no hope in pleasuring you properly but make it one to remember instead, it's a good memory to have for a women
Every date without sex is a waste of my time
I can not say about other guys. But for me if i go out with you i want to get to know you. Being friends is a plus. If we have sex on the first date or even if it is just head that will not deter me from wanting to get to know you more or treat you like the great person that you are. We all have our needs and desires and we all make choices. In plain English we are adults. Lol so why would that deter me to not want to get to know you more or be your friend or more. After all i do not want to think back on my life realizing we could have had a good thing or that you might have been the one. 😎
Depends how good the sex was
i'd see her again, as long as she is emotionally stable. the stereotype is that girls who are easy might also be emotionally unstable but i don't assume that right away
I am okay with oral on the first date, but she has to wait at least 3 months for sex.
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