Haha why are you so surprised?
just surprised 🙈
Well I hope the guy you like comes soon and does exactly what I said here to you 😉
🥺 I hope
Don't be sad :) He is probably on his way to you. However, I don't even have girlfriend to do it haha. I need to be the one crying tbh..
I got sad.. because he was gag member
There was a guy from GAG that I sext with, and I really fall in love. but I don't how to cope this feeling. what should I do? ↗
Ohh.. I feel you.. I met my girlfriend here on GaG as well. And guess what, we were also living in different countries! But we made it work.. for a long time. 1.5 years to be exact. We waited to see each other for 6 months, can you believe it? Just to be able to spend a few days together. I truly feel your pain, if you like to talk more about it you can DM me.
so you were dating with her only in 1.5 years?
I met her on here in September 2018. We started dating around November 2018. We've been together until March 2020.
I see.. it's pain to date someone far. :(
Yeah but I think if you know you can make it work, then it's okay to be far. She really loved me but unfortunately people around her convinced her that I was possibly seeing other girls too. Which I'd never do and she knew it. But she couldn't help her jealousy after a certain point and we had many fights :( However, as you described in your question, I cared about her so much that I'd never ignore her. I also got a lot of work to do but in such cases I'd always say that to her and make it up later on. The fact that he is 10 years older than you and he tried to fix you with his friends don't make much sense for someone who loves you. Please don't get me wrong, I don't want to make you sad but he's probably not the one you're looking for...
he did that when we started to sext. and he didn't like me during that time.. but then when I asked him if he likes me , he said he do. I'm lost...
You've been sexting and you're likely to be an attractive girl for him. Of course he likes you, and enjoys a lot when you sext. However, what I meant was that, he probably doesn't think as serious about you as you think he does. Older men tend to show interest in younger girls like you to get what they want. I'm not saying he's a bad person but all I'm saying is that if he cared about you and your feelings, he wouldn't leave you waiting for attention like this. You've been talking for some time, you know each other well. It's obvious that you are emotional and will feel hurt if he doesn't seem as interested in you as you are with him. He is well aware of everything but he doesn't put enough effort to make you more comfortable about your relationship. This is not a good sign.
thinking about this make me sick. I feel nauseous and sad. he was always compliment me. is that means older guys only want fun from younger girls?
I'm really sorry to bring up all these but it is for your own good. The earlier you realize what's going the better, trust me. I don't want you to feel used, afterall you enjoyed the interaction as well didn't you? Consider this as an experience and don't be harsh on yourself. There's absolutely nothing wrong in what you did. It's just him that is careless and thinking about his own pleasure only without making it seem like it. He is 34 but is okay with playing a young girl's feelings. I hate such people. As an answer to your question, unfortunately I have to say yes. Maybe it's different in real life but older men who met a young girl online never think serious about them. Because they know their lives are very different and it won't work out. However, they also don't wanna give up on what they can get from them which is totally disgusting. I'm sorry that you were involved in this mess. If you still don't believe me, you will see the hard truth in the following days. His interest in you will be less and less and it'll mostly be about sex when you ever talk to him. I don't want you to go through this much more painfull process, that's why I'm telling all this to you in advance.
if it's true.. I don't how to get real love..
I believe it's just a coincidence. You get to know a person at a random time and things just seem to work out perfectly. No red flags though, like his "sharing" you offer with his friends. Ugh I feel disgusted even saying this. Which countries do you live in by the way?
by the way he's 32, I'm 24. I live in Southeast Asia, i embarrassed to tell you where I'm from. i don't think it would work perfectly. I typically a shy girl, I don't talk to guys. I afraid to see guys' face from close. and if some guys tried to talk in flirty way, I would run away. I only have female friends. and I noticed that guys won't take an effort to get a girl. because girls here are always chasing any guy. so guys doesn't have hard time to get girls.
Haha you are cute :) No reason to be shy about the country you live in but okay I won't force you on that.But you indeed are very shy compared to the rest of the girls out there. It's probably your culture that girls chase guys but it is very weird for most guys to hear this including me haha. That sounds like a fun country to live in for guys.
haha. yeah. my internet guy friend said it sounds heaven living in my country. since you said no force. I'm from Malaysia.
It truly sounds like a heaven hahaha. Now that I learned this, I need to fly over there asap to see what it's like 😂 Thanks for sharing. I don't know much about Malaysia so how is life over there?
hahaha 🤣🤣🤣 now is coronavirus, we don't have serious covid case , but the rules are insane. forgot to wear mask, we have to pay 10k MYR. to you it is like 1k dollar. 🌝 last time they said 10k MYR (ages ago the forfeit was 1k myr) but when rich people who didn't follow the rules only need to pay 1k MYR. so yeah. it's not fair. while foods, less fun. all Thai immigrants no longer in Malaysia. so we can't have thai foods 😂
to you it's like 10k dollar. don't convert the currency. xd
Aha so it's much more expensive for foreigners I guess 😅 But we don't use dollar as the currency haha. You don't like your own foods? You seem to be the type of girl who enjoys spicy food a lot don't you haha
lol Thai foods aren't spicy.. I don't like spicy. 😅 some of our foods are spicy. but I won't eat any spicy foods. it's not healthy eating spicy xd
Hahaha 😂 I thought almost all Asian cousine is spicy so sorry for that 😅 I don't like spicy foods either but heard that they are healthy. Why do you think they aren't?
it would destroy your stomach tissue.! in other words gastric 🙂 some people got stomach cancer because of spicy..
Hahaha they must have aten an insane amount of spicy food then 😂 One of my close friends is Indian and he can eat whatever spice you give him haha. He loves it and thinks it's very healthy for body. I don't agree especially getting that spice out of the body part is really bad if you know what I mean 😂
your Indian friend is like my cousins. they mocked/diss me if I don't eat spicy 🙄 I don't like them. they forced me to like what they like. it's annoying. eat foods like a pig, love to take of skin face, basically they forced me to do same thing.-_-
plus I have gastric. when I was a kid, I only ate noodles or porridge, or fries. 😂😂😂 I was picky. so and if I ate spicy, I feel like my butt feels the spiciness after popping!!! it hurts af! maybe those who love spicy foods love to feel their asshole burn. 🤣
Oh that's sad to hear. At least he doesn't force me to eat it, he just says I should and that it's healthy lol. I don't care if it's healthy, I do other stuff for my health like working out haha. Have you ever been to abroad? Your English is very good so I figured either you're into foreign languages or you lived abroad for some time
Lmao! 🤣🤣 I have no idea if they like it but I certainly don't. It's painful ffs 😂
thanks compliment me. haha.. when I was younger, internet people mocked my mistakes and i felt so hurt to be honest. my English isn't totally perfect. so yeah.. I just tried my best to know the basics. I only traveled to Indonesia and Singapore. I lived abroad for a few months in Indonesia. but they don't speak English. sigh. wish i could travel to Australia. (started to love 5sos again) I got an idea.. if my cousins force me again , I would bring topic about they love feeling the burn in their butt if we're having the meals.. so that they would embarrassed and cancelled to mock me and eat less
I'm an Indian I do like spicy food I'm used to not a big deal for me
@Nishant_123 you don't feel your asshole burn after popping?
Hahaha you are cute 😂 That's a good idea, you should try it. It's a good thing you speak fluent English though because as far as I know, in your country not many people are able to speak English. Mine isn't perfect either, practice makes perfect.
Nope maybe I'm used to it
@mysterioust to think back, having good English doesn't make me go anywhere. :( English isn't useful 🙂@nishant_123 wow 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It is very useful. You'll eventually see the benefits soon. Especially in the work life.
Most Indian love spices and it's normal here we don't even call it spicy
Agree with @MysteriousT good English will eventually help you in work
nah. I don't believe that. one of my other cousins good at English. and he even got a scholarship. but what happens to him? he's working at local bank. instead live abroad with better job 🙂 no progress. no point learning English. yea. I understand that.
Well in order to live abroad you need to be able to speak English. This isn't even open to debate learning English is of course useful from many aspects.
even if she asked you for that?
I have been asked to do so. But when you are flying near the speed of sound, or dodging missiles, you really need to focus on that one thing.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 so you won't get horny?
I do. Just not at work.
Do you get horny at work?
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Well if I knew that she wanted me, I’d probably tease her.
how are you going to tease her? 🙈
It would b with my words and the things I’d say.