Would you consider hiring an escort for sex?

[Vero4567]

[Love2Jackit]

Yes I would hire escort for sex. 2 be honest I have already been with a few escorts. Reason I got an escort is simple. By the way many people hate on escorts. When u pay them they give u a service. Which is giving u pleasure. Either by sex or massage. U get what you want. In return that's how they make a living. Another reason I don't mind hire one. Most of them know what they are doing. They don't say I gt a headache. Don't act like a ungrateful person. 2 many women these days think they should get paid and still don't want 2 give their man the attention. He deserves many of them think they are entitled 2 his money by being with me. That's true proof why the divorce in America is so high. Men get tired of working thier ass off. Then be good enough 2 share with a woman. What does she do in return. She goes off with another man behind his back. Worst part is by him wanting a divorce. Then 9 times out 10. The woman usually gets half of what he worked. That's not fair. But a good lawyer says life wasn't made 2 be fair. That's why I say go ahead and hire an escort. You can pay her and then send her on way. U get pleasure and don't have 2 give up half of what u worked.

[9Livezzz]

Amen

[Shellyworld]

Lol you experienced a terrible divorce I believe.

[msc545]

@Shellyworld All divorces are terrible for men.

[Reaperbot666]

I only sleep with or engage in sexual interaction with. one exclusive female partner at anytime. because I believe sex should only be something. a couple does to help them bond.

[Reaperbot666]

I tend to have 4 rules when dating someone new. 1. no sexual interaction until were in a exclusive relationship together. 2. no sex until we have been dating at least 90 days. 3. both of us get tested for STD's and other nasty things to prove we're clean. 4. we both use protection to reduce risk of pregnancy. if a new partner can't follow those. then their most likely not worth my time.

[Alyssa11]

You're a rare smart guy!

[Reaperbot666]

I am single also

[Alyssa11]

I like to think of that as making smart decisions with who you choose to date :)

[Reaperbot666]

I've only had a few partners in the past and each was exclusive. plus each relationship lasted at least a few years.

[Alyssa11]

Exactly. Same here by the way it goes both ways lol.

[Reaperbot666]

@Alyssa11 the more hookups or sexual partners a person has. the less likely they can pair bond well in the future. from what many studies show at least and that goes for males and females.

[Alyssa11]

Interesting!

[Reaperbot666]

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[Reaperbot666]

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[Vero4567]

@reaperbot666 Agreed.

[Reaperbot666]

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[mistixs]

No, because:
1) I don't want or agree with noncommittal sex
2) having sex with escorts is immoral because you never know for sure whether or not they're a victim of sex trafficking
3) the knowledge that person is only having sex with me for money and isn't having sex with me because they really genuinely want to would make me dry as the sahara

[mechp]

On point 👏👏

[iseekpinetrees]

Lol no I've had my fair share of fuck boys. Close enough.

[djmzes]

Simple

[RemoErdosain]

I considered it before when I was a virgin. Decided not to. I wouldn't go to an escort right now

[Oigit]

I wouldn't. Truthfully I have a slight aversion to physical contact in general and pretty much always have. It's very much centered around physical contact with people I don't know. So even something as simple as a handshake with someone I don't know, I'm not a fan of. So being intimate with someone I don't know and don't have a connection to isn't going to happen.

[knottywriter]

Nope. Never will pay for something I can get for free.

[wankiam]

thats up to you but the logic of the statement would sugest when you need a snack you could go and forage for food but i think you would agree its easier to pick up a bag of chips lol

[knottywriter]

No need to forage if the snacks are readily available and willing to be eaten. lol

[wankiam]

thats my point but the snacks aren't free, just conveniet

[knottywriter]

Snacks are free for me. Never had any issue there. Besides I've always been selective on my snacks because I don't do random snacks.

[wankiam]

so literal snacks are free to you... do you work at a factory or something or are you missing my point which was purely about your metaphor being flawed as most people do pay for food rather than go hunting or foraging

[knottywriter]

No I get the metaphor. I just have plenty of friends who don't mind being my snack if I wanted.

[wankiam]

nevermind hey. you clearly dont see what i mean

[OlderAndWiser]

Never have, never will. I want sex as the whipped cream on a relationship dessert.

[Massageman]

Interesting analogy. I like Reddi Wip!

[centerline]

I considered it a lot when I was single, but then I joined a dating site... there are loads of women who want to meet someone decent for a relationship, and while trying to find that person without any luck, they STILL have needs that need to be tended to, and so are willing to give of themselves in an attempt to put out the fire for a little while, until someone else who seems worthy comes along...

I now realize there is no need to pay an escort for something that can be had for free, AND from someone who may be the one we have been searching for all our lives... if not, throw them back and keep fishing!

[Vero4567]

@centerline I second this!

[msc545]

Sex is never free for men.

[MCheetah]

Yup, and I've done it.

[Soteris]

Its not like I have any sort of aversion for hiring escorts but at the same time I dont see much value in it either. Maybe if I was on vacation and just felt like spending money and have a great time.

[roody]

No way...

[FictionalCharacter]

In this rural area, Hellz yeah.

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not.

[KralArthur]

Male escorts?

[aieeazumui]

@KralArthur lol , ladies never hire males

[Sparda20xx]

Women don't need too. Any half decent looking woman could have sex with a, snap of her fingers. Women choose not to have sex.

[wankiam]

@aieeazumui obviously not in the same numbers but i assure you there is a whole male escort business here in the uk so i would disagree with the word ''never''

[Year3000]

@wankiam rent boys especially in Brighton Beach.

[wankiam]

@Year3000 yes they exist but there are guys that have a female only clientelle too

[FGV997]

Nah. Would 1v1 on the Switch with her though.
My Kirby would sweep the floor with her.

[SjE78]

no as while i have nothing against them, nor prostitutes i want a meaningful and long term serious relationship... and hiring someone just for one thing kinda defeats the point of that... i mean i won't even have a hookup or ONS, not even a fuckbuddy either

[Dongtai]

I've thought about it but I'm too afraid of under cover cops. I''d have to go to a place where it's legal

[wankiam]

i did this once on my birthday a few years ago... it wasn't because i just wanted sex but i wanted the thrill of seeing a prostitute just once. it was really good too

[slatyb]

I might if I were single. For most of my life I have not been single.

[micheal727jovanie]

Had a bad experience so no and thank god it didn't went any further.

[LiamSawyer]

No, I wouldn't.

[Kaamraj]

Yes, I have already hired escorts few times. For men sex can be divorced from love, it's a physical need and fortunately or unfortunately my sex drive has been pretty high. The escorts I would consider hiring are all willing participants in this business and make good money. Often they get back to me asking if I would be willing to hire them again.

[Agape93]

Depends on if they’re clean or not