Had sex for the first time with guy, worried my blowjob wasn’t good enough?

Question

So I personally like giving head but I haven’t been sexually active for 2 years so I’m rusty (he knows this). We were getting intimate and I wandered down to his dick and I really tried to give good head.. I didn’t use my teeth, used plenty of spit but not too much, I used my tongue, deep throat, and he seemed into it as he was saying sexual things to me and commented how much he loved when I deep throated.. he seemed really turned on and he came soon after when we had sex but I’m afraid I didn’t do the sucking feeling enough or there were parts I could have done better and maybe more slower and I don't know I’m beating myself up over it... like what if he isn’t as interested.. I don't know.. He invited me over for this Saturday and I want to make sure to be better but I don’t even know if I’m good or not because I don’t do it often?

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

take it easy on yourself you seem to know all the techniques well important ones... DT is the toughest one... but relax... wear a nice short mini skirt or dress... eventually tell him you want to give him a long sensous blowjob... undress him undo his shoes sock pants guys love it!!! then remember to be slow and sensous with him... lick kiss softly suck his balls... lick his cock up and down... tonight you'll work on his head... kiss it lick suck it... but your going to swirl your tongue around his head... and work on his vein behind the head by licking it with different tongue variations... there's a lot of feeling for them there... sure suck his head put your lips/mouth around his head and suck it so good... use variations as loose and tighter... enjoy his cock suck it for long as he can stand... deep throating is an option but tonight go for a long sensous blowjob... and i'm sure you'll enjoy his cum more than ever tonight... in all seriousness it's a wonderful experience and i'm interested you want to give great head... main thing to remember if a guy knows your enthusastic about giving him a blowjob he'll definitely love that... and most guys love having their penis in a girl's mouth and is willing to swallow their cum... if you do that much he'll be very happy with you.

bowenw · Accepted Answer

I'm sure you did a great job. Everyone is different. Some guys like deep throat, some prefer you focus on the first few inches. Communication is key. Tell him what you're going to do and ask him what he likes. Use a lot of tongue especially on the frenulum. Keep your lips tight. Avoid contact with your teeth. Hold the skin tight at the base of the shaft with one hand and use a twisting action on the shaft with the other. Also lick the balls and perineum. If you want to try making him cum in your mouth and swallowing, tell him you want him to cum in your mouth so you can swallow all of it. Increase the sucking and stroking. Don't stop until he finishes completely unless he tells you his dick is too sensitive to continue. After he desensitizes, pull on the shaft from the base to the tip a couple of times to squeeze out any remaining cum. Clean it with a tissue or lick it off. Do this a couple of times more after his dick goes soft.

Knighted2170 · Accepted Answer

You probably did just fine as he was into it.

There is really only so much you can do. Don't compare to porn. Very little of what they show actually feels good. It more for looks than anything.

If he invited you over later. It's a good indicator you were good enough for him.

This looks like a vailed question. What are you really asking for?

AustinMan · Answer

Sounds to me like you did a bang up job. This help?

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Well, here is how you deal with it, you tell him, you tell him you don't think you did it as best as you could so your going to need to practice on him until you get it right. Guarentee you that he will be thrilled to let you use him for practice and give insights into how to do it better. In short, don't take it to seriously and be open and honest about it.

spartan55 · Answer

He came in your mouth, yet you feel like you underperformed? Geez have a little confidence ffs. If your blowjob sucked (couldn't resist) then HE WOULDN'T HAVE CAME. Confidence from a woman in the bedroom is a huge turn on. Lack of confidence obviously does the opposite..

GingerGuy · Answer

Sounds like you might be worrying for nothing ("he seemed really turned on and he came soon after"). But you have to talk to him and ask him because like women, guys are all different and like different things. You have to get to know what he likes and doesn't like. But if he tells you it's all great, then it is.

LiamSawyer · Answer

It sounds to me like you did a very good job. Lol... I'd offer to let you practice on me to build up your confidence but that's just wishful thinking and not reality.

IamBoredAF · Answer

Woah, chill. Your head was just great and the sex more than pleasurable. Don't worry!

Dargil · Answer

I see nothing amiss here. You got him ready for sex and he finished. If you wanted cum-in-mouth you just stay with it with a few modifications.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Ask him ahead of time how he likes it an what things he likes during

MarkyMark77 · Answer

did he cum? sounds like u did really good honestly did u have fun? thats actually imporant bc its more fun for me if the girl is into it

johnieohm2 · Answer

Be warned you are not a literal professional and all porn is is smoke and mirrors. They will literally take take after take for hours to get the right angle to make it seem like she is good but in truth pornstars are not that good when they first start and there after sometime of doing it. That being said for a guy if you are giving a blowjob and not using teeth, or do as that can feel good too, I am sure that he enjoyed it and wants it more