Does it matter how my vagina looks?

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I am afraid of oral sex cause my labia minora is bigger than my labia majora and it looks awful. 😐

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I'm sure it looks just fine. Roughly 70% of women have "outies" - where the labia minora are visible when she's standing up - and obviously this isn't a problem, or 70% of women would be single, and Natural Selection would have greatly reduced or eliminated this trait over time.

Tons of porn girls have "outies" and that doesn't keep them from being extremely popular, so if it was a problem, how is that possible? Clearly, it's not a problem.

Take a look at the Great Wall Of Vagina:

http://www.greatwallofvagina.co.uk/home

An artist took molds of hundreds of regular women's labias and made a sculpture out of them. You'll notice that, while "innies" certainly exist, the majority are "outies." That's completely normal. You'll also notice that no two are alike.

razelove · Accepted Answer

Many women have large labia, and many men find that attractive who, you know, have actually had sex with women rather than watching a lot of porn. I highly doubt they look awful, and if any guy says as much, tell him to find a new vagina. My preference is for larger labia, shrug, more fun to play with, suck on, and they feel better during sex, more area rubbing and gripping on a place that feels really good to be rubbed, gripped and enveloped.

You'll have to take your own time and path to gain confidence or believe me though.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

u only think it looks awful cause u got it stuck in your head how u think it should look, there are all types of vaginas, it doesn't matter cause think of it this way, we all end up with whoever is compatible with us anyhow, so some people, someone is gonna be just fine with you as you are, so it dont matter. men are so horny they dont care when it comes down to it, all they think bout is i get to stick my dick in this soon, they aren't stuck in their head about it as u are, just accept yourself an know that someone else will too.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Get health insurance so it's cheaper to get a surgery and fix it if it bothers you that much. I didn't even worry about that to be honest, but then I found out that my vagina was attractive, which didn't matter to me before. I'm not bragging, just saying I had other insecurities like my stretch marks on my ass and hips which I eventually stop being bothered about because it started to stress me out for no reason. So you can either do the same thing and see it as a non factor, or go get it fixed.

AustinMan · Answer

It doesn't look awful. It's the way most women look.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Don't worry about such things you cannot change. Just be sure you're clean and when the guy is into you, he will eat it, no worries.

SirJeffers · Answer

As long as you keep everything washed and clean, it doesn't matter what it looks like. Have you seen half the stuff guys will eat? You're a 5 star restaurant. Lol

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Simple answer: your guy will be so turned on that it won't matter at all. Very few guys have ever refused to have sex because of the shape or appearance of their partner's pussy.

Red_Arrow · Answer

Many of us prefer that appearance. We love seeing the inner lips showing beyond the outer ones. It gives us more fun sucking on them and arousing you women by stimulating them. Far prefer those over hidden ones,

iseekpinetrees · Answer

I don't have a pussy that looks like this but I've asked guys and most really don't care about looks as long as your letting them touch you your good. Most guys are excited to eat pussy.

ohshee · Answer

I'm not sure if I have answered this before from you or someone else
Any way I'm a little bigger so I like because it kinda just lays against it and keep it wet ,, so me it would be good plus if I like you and want to be you you it's not because a part of you body parts it's because of your heart. Heart. Pussy. Yes no. HEART PUSSY. YES NO, um I picked heart every time
You should really stop worrying about it. ,, because if a guy doesn't want to be with you because of looks. Let him go I mean even if it's with your foot up his ass you have to thank him for telling you a head if time he's a dick ,, whatt wins out ,,, looks or performance stop worrying your fine

CriticalDiscourse · Answer

Honestly, you will find people who insist there is a look that's ideal - but most dudes who like you, who want to have sex with you, are not going to pull out a tape measurer along with some photo slides to compare your vagina to.

Tamera952 · Answer

Beef curtains downstairs? Va-jay-jay has wings? ... Some call them mud flaps.

Porter21 · Answer

No why would you worry how about how your vagina looks? I don’t have a perfect penis &! I don’t worry about how my penis looks. I am a grower so my dick looks small when I am not hard I am about 2.5 inches soft & I grow to about 6.5 inches when I get a hard on! I used to worry about my size! Especially when I took a shower in gym class. Not now I am very happy with my penis size! So don’t worry about it you have a beautiful vagina!!

Darcia · Answer

No, guys and girls don’t care about that.

slatyb · Answer

No, it doesn’t. We don’t care. They are all perfect.

GingerGuy · Answer

Not to worry. We guys like them all! It will bother you much more.

Inquisitive3 · Answer

It's called a vulva and they are all different, just like different faces. However you look, it isn't 'awful'

TadCurious · Answer

It's normal for the labia minora to be visible through the outer labia majora. It's not a flaw and vulvas like that are perfectly fine and very erotically beautiful.

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

From what I've seen, most men don't seem to mind. My ex-fiancee had it, and it didn't make a bit of difference to me, although she mostly refused to let me go down on her because of her inhibitions about it, which did bother me only a little, but at that time I didn't know what I was missing (never really went down on anyone before her).

Dargil · Answer

Very few guys will say it matters. Just be fresh and clean.

Shiver · Answer

Nah, it's fine. Don't worry about it too much.

bowenw · Answer

All vaginas are unique and beautiful. A good guy that's into you will not care what it looks like. What's most important is how you use it and your personality.

Questionsweask · Answer

if it does he is a pig. i bet its fine, i bet you will meet someone that will love you for you and be so into you you will never remember this later in life. Til then be you, do you, be proud of you and anyone who isn't they, do not deserve to be with you because we are all beautiful damnt. Heck i am not a movie star , a rock star but a star that shines bright none the less. Your a star girl, dont forget that.. Sounds perfect to me, for oral , pounding, and a showcase for all labias to try and be like, With its own crown.. I bet stars , rich ladies be like can you make mine look like hers, she is amazing hot. Kardashians be like damn girl thats a nice little labia. You be like dont i know it. and i am proud to show it. You had me at Labia girl. , be you !

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