I'd say more open and communicative.
Someone who merely initiates might leave themselves open to situations where there partner isn't in the mood for one reason or another. It could result in frustration. Not to say that initiating sex isn't a good thing. There is more to communication than words. Eyes, facial expressions, a deep kiss, certain hugs or the use of hands sends a pretty clear message.
But vocal communication allows one to ask. I love it when my partner is open and can say things like "Mmmmm That feels sooooo good", "Fuck! That is making me so horny!", "I am so wet right now", or "I want you to come inside me."
Uninhibited communication is also great during sex. I love it! Tell me what feels good. Tell me what you want. Tell me "Oh my God, your cock feels so good inside me", or "Fuck! You're fucking my guts! Don't stop!", "I'm going to cum!" or "I want you to cum in my mouth."
And it's great when she likes me say things to her.
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Both, of course. 😁
Well let me know when the book finished, 😂
Both are super important. I wouldn't want to be the only initiating sex as it would feel like she didn't want to make the effort to initiating it herself and it would make me feel bad about myself. I would need a woman to be open talking about sexual things and kinks because I'm very open about that stuff and feel it's super important to be open about your wants/needs and kinks otherwise someone isn't getting the most out of it. I got kinks and would love to tell her and have her know about it, accept them and take part in them with me.
Great great answer!! Agree 💯
Open communication is key to mutual satisfaction. Frequent initiation isn’t worth anything to me if it’s not a mutually fulfilling experience.
Well said!! But some people also feel like if they the only one initiating it, the other don't want it as much, so while I think communication is crucial for better sexual chemistry, feeling wanted and desired is too, I'm greedy lol I need both 😂
Lol! I agree! We’ve got a really good balance going on right now. Sometimes he’s too tried in the evening when I try to initiate, but then he imitates in the morning. :)
See the entertainer I really heard anybody mention you there's a defect that if you're open incommunicative that your experience and your pleasure is going to be more aroused and heightened in your orgasms are gonna be so much more better and so more intense so if your not communicated in if you are doing something your partner doesn't like and not saying anything well not in their sex life can be shitty that's why there's like a 67% divorce rate See the entertainer I really heard anybody mention you there's a defect that if you're open incommunicative that your experience and your pleasure is going to be more aroused and heightened in your orgasms are gonna be so much more better and so more intense so if your not communicated in if you are doing something your partner doesn't like and not saying anything well not in their sex life can be shitty that's why there's like a 67% divorce rate in the country
I would love to have a partner who is open to communication but also initiates at least as often as I do.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!i like both and honestly my last girl freind when i was way younger was all about
initiating , we could be watching tv or out side enjoy the day and if no one was around she would go straight for the oral stuff , she was an amazing but it nly lasted 5 weeks
but i enjoy that crap and if i was asleep it did not matter she woke me up and i finished what she started. but that was 30 years ago. but i still like that though lol
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I can initiate anything and I can communicate with her but I need her to communicate with me.
Exactly!
Who is on top tonight? It's Tuesday, right?
Okay I admit I'm slow, what does Tuesday got to do with it? Unless you mean titty Tuesday 🤔
Because today is Tuesday.
Okay lol
As long as the woman who communicates kinks and desires is receptive to my advances I don't need her to initiate. If she is not, it's just a tease.
And that she be enthusiastic/present for it as well.
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I'm going sex more, simply because I'd like to know when she is in the mood and it would also give me added confidence to know that she likes to have sex with me.
Now I'm not opposed to those conversations either and would have fun talking about them but having intimacy encouraged would be nice.
Now having intimacy and talking about kinks, that's a bonus 😁
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voted c but openess is very important indeed to me
Very true!!
Communication will lead to more initiating 😉 true story.
Lol that's true mostly
The more communicative partner. It’s absolutely essential. I’m happy to initiate.
Communication is very important for great compatibility I agree
There's a difference?
I mean C is the easy answer here, but a cop out.
So when we say 'initiate more' how much more are we talking? And when not intiating, are they enthusiastically receptive if I initiate?
If the open communicator initiates some of the time and is enthusiastic when i do, sure communication is a plus.
If the open communicator initiates hardly ever and often turns down sex, i will take the high drive bad communicator very quickly. Communication can be helpful for negotiating compromises and finding common ground, but it doesn't CREATE common ground or alignment.
Good answer!! That why I think both are important in their own way... Like communicate not to pull the dick out in a restaurant 🤣🤣🤣🤣
That was bad trolling lol. If i recall correctly from my teen kids, the correct response to her story would be 'and then everyone clapped'. then comment with things like 'it's a true story, i was there i'm the waiter/another patron/i was the water glass one table over'
Sorry, guess still had this obvious troll post in my head replying here 🤣🤣
Is pulling your dick out in a restaurant on the first date sexual harassment or is it a compliment to a woman? ↗
My first girlfriend was so behind developmemtly i had tame my sexual side.
Did that cause problems in the relationship then?
Pretty much, people would suggest trying things but she had no idea what it was.
Yeah that would be difficult
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Communicating is what I want the most
Think that's most important, but it can also be an issue for some if they feel like they the only one always initiating
Initiate sex more... I would love if she would start and take the initiative towards sex, not just lay there while I start the playing.. I would love to be seduced sometime.
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I think if you communicate then the initiate will follow.
A, as long as he's still active in the bed, I mean. "I'm open to discussing kinks, but I don't fuck" would suck
That's true
See i always had this theory that there is making love and straight fucking.
Both dam it, girl. Gots to have both.
Ha that's what I said! Great minds...
A Partner That Is More Open And Communicative Discussing Sex And Kinks
That's what I want..
It definitely makes sex better
Why does that have to be mutually exclusive? Rather have the communication.
It doesn't lol why there was a both option 🙂
communicate but both isn't a bad idea. could not vote both due to my being a dom so her inituating it more would come off as less sub.
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