What would be the most important thing about giving a blowjob?

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BillHe1 · Accepted Answer

NO Biting,

I was gonna say "NO Teeth", but that might not "come out" right, or maybe they would... LOL

Slow and easy at first and maybe work up to fast and vigorous, with plenty of Sucking. I love the actual sucking feeling, not just the deep throatng. Bring me up by fast and long hard sucking.

Last night I tried something different for us... she usually gives me a blowjob while we are laying in bed naked after an exhausting sex ride. She'll start playing with my penis and try to work it up again and I'll throw the sheets off and and just lay there as she plays. She'll grab some flavored lube and coat my penis and then slide down to give me Head. But she's always got her back turned to me so I can't see her taking it in her mouth. And I want to see my dick in her mouth.

Well, last night I was just relaxing sucking on her breasts enjoying some warm milk... I jumped up on my knees and slid up in front of her face, she was on her side and my penis was hanging right in her face. There was just enough light coming from the back yard light, that I could actually see her face and my penis. She slowly opened her lips and her mouth and tongue slid over my penis, slowly taking it in as I watched. I moved a little closer so more of it would go in (even though it is s h o r t) Slowly sucking and sliding in and out, and I'd hold the back of her head and shove me penis forward as deep as possible. Then we began a steady motion faster and faster and she'd suck and suck, and I kept my hand on the back of her head moving with the motion and rhythm. I began to feel the tingling and tightening in my balls and the flashes of excitement building. Then I heard myself yell "It's now It's now... I'm gonna"... I felt the explosion and impulses in my penis, I felt several bursts as if I was Cumming, but I can't anymore. NO Cum but the feeling and experience was there... I almost collapsed on her, my knees were shaking. She just kept on sucking for awhile longer.

Then I went down on her. We love to "treat" each other.

Leavesbound · Accepted Answer

Three things. First is watch your teeth. Nothing ruins a blow job quicker than to feel teeth scraping across your manhood. The second thing to know is that enthusiasm is far more important than skill. If this is your first time and you look me in the eyes and beg me to teach you or you act as if you are the luckiest girl in the world because I "let" you give me head that is a huge turn on to most guys and we will forgive lack of skill. Finally, when it comes to the actual physicality of it, a steady unchanging rhythm is the best way to go If you can't keep a fast pace going then don't go fast. A slow and even pace is better than a fast pace where you have to keep stopping to catch your breath. You don't have to take it all the way down either. If it's too big (I never had this problem) then just hold on to it with one hand or even jerk it with that one hand while you work your mouth over the end with a lot of steady rhythmic mouth action. Sure it is a turn on to see it go all the way in but personally I like to close my eyes and just feel the experience. One more thing. You have at least one spare hand. Find out if your guy likes his balls played with during head. find out how gentle and rough he likes it. Then if he likes his balls touched then keep touching them until you are done. They are more sensitive than the penis and can provide 75% of the stimulation if touched correctly. If he doesn't like his balls touched at all then use your free hand to either reach up to his chest or around to his ass and play with it.

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

most of all enjoy it... enjoy what you do... don't become a deep throater because he wants it... remember a guy will be happy long as you suck his cock having it in your mouth and willing to swallow... anything else is up to you... if you like giving a long sensous blowjob on your knees that's up to you... i used to have this thought i had to deep him... now that i'm older i feel just being on my knees and looking up into his eyes sucking his head and swirling my tongue around his vein... licking his shaft and giving him some ball time... i love a nice long blowjob 20+ minutes something to enjoy and remembering... and the thrill of his cum oozing out of his cock is quite a turn on and very arousing for us... so enjoy the blowjob when giving one... they like it too when you actually enjoy it and give a smile or two when giving it.

AshleyTaylorDanny · Accepted Answer

Make sure you get his knees knocking, eyes rolling, and the OMG I'M GONNA CUMMMMMM out of him 😃

Sangita93 · Answer

Most important thing about giving him blowjob - or anything about sex is enjoying ultimate moments of pleasure. Be it penetrative sex, blowjob, getting naked in front of partner or just seeing him naked. Both must be ready for it, supporting each-other and enjoying the things at moment. I encourage my husband for all this things and make him happy for all these things.

AustinMan · Answer

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razelove · Answer

Have fun with it, on both sides. If you're doing so out of a sense of obligation rather than amusement, curiosity or desire to please, just don't. If he's expecting you to be able to suck a golf-ball through a garden hose on try one without knowing what he himself wants, don't do it.

You'll come around to wanting to play and please, he'll come around to wanting that BJ without any expectations except your attention.

So just desire and fun in my opinion, no magic technique or anything. Usually they're just foreplay anyway.

Blondeandfree · Answer

Intimacy, love with your SO. Closeness.

katiesmuff · Answer

Be careful not to bite or scratch is penis!

weysally · Answer

to give someone you love or has a great friendship with sexual pleasure, this will differ, but one that I find they like isn't deep throat, but teasing, and they like my tongue going around the eye of their penis, and of course nibbling,

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Making sure you park in a quiet area of the supermarket car park. never park too close to entrance, far too many perverts

aloebella · Answer

Not to choke?

spartan55 · Answer

Watch the guys face while you are doing it. This will give you great feedback to know what is working.

Ms_Vanderquack · Answer

Having fun. If you don't enjoy it you aren't likely to do it again and everything else (technique, skill, stile, swallow/spit...) Is irrelevant. But I'd you have fun with it everything else will come with time and practice.

electromagnetic · Answer

Don’t neglect the testicles and taint.

Bellatris · Answer

Making sure that you properly finish the job, and ensuring that whoever it is you're sucking on has the most awesome orgasm ever! Also be sure to swallow whatever comes out.

Elliegirl · Answer

Enjoy it, be enthusiastic, and don’t be a biter.

normalice · Answer

Enthusiasm. I need to know the girl is enjoying what she is doing or i feel rushed. And the whole point of a blowjob is to relax.

fauxhii · Answer

IME (even if you're not into it lol) it's maintaining rhythm and using your finger and thumb as an "extension"... guys always cum in my mouth when I do this, even when I tell them to tell me beforehand. They tell me after the fact that they don't want to say anything like "go faster" because it messes up what I'm already doing which apparently is something they don't want to stop... so I'm guessing it's the R-H-Y-T-H-M thing that does it. -up-down-up-down-up-down- steady pace... nonstop.