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Why is society so double standard?

I’ve had sex with one guy and I’m turning 23 this year but for example if a guy sleeps around, OH it’s cool bro, you hit it but NO if a girl has had sex with one or two guys and she wants to have a little fun but NOT a hoe around, there goes people opening their mouths and assuming shit about her that isn’t true. I’m so done with people like that. I know or have heard of girls and guys who have a higher body count than that and their younger than me tf is wrong with you people?
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  • I detest the term "body count". It's so impersonal, to the point of being inhuman, reducing humans to nothing but rutting animals.

    Then again, whether they're men or women I struggle with seeing someone with a high number as more than animalistic. I couldn't give that part of myself to someone I didn't expect to send the remains of my life with.

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  • Personally all I think about when it comes to “body count” is experience, if you want someone to be good in bed, then you should expect them to have a larger “body count” just saying, I am only 16 and I have been with 3😳 so I wouldn’t worry about it lol😂

Most Helpful Girl

  • It's kind. of normal for girls to have sex by 8th grade or by 9th grade. I think it's different for guys. If you are careful about who you do it with you shouldn't get a bad name.

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  • Think about the virgins...

    The society is extremely biased & judges men harshly.

    A virgin woman is pure & innocent.
    A virgin man is a loser incel.

    Double Standards exist! We men also face them but for us they are different than what they are for women!

  • Women propagate double standards just as much as do men.

  • You are right, there are many double standards in society for genders.

    • Yeah I’m finding this to be annoying and stupid how people think it’s okay to treat someone who’s barley had sex as such but for them they want it to be okay and they have had sex with a lot of people, more than me.

  • I agree that a double standard is bad. This is why I have never rejected a girl for having a lot of sexual experience.

  • This has been going on forever Attitudes seem to be changing with the social media culture. It is probably a throwback to when girls were expected to be virgins when they married.

  • Because women love treating each other like shit.

  • Why do a select few women insist that society doesn't look down on men who sleep around? Most of society views them as dangerous sleezbags who should stay alone.

  • You're paying too much attention to the opinions of people who do not matter.

  • I don't like guys who sleep around and If I ever have daughters I'll be keeping my shotgun handy Can't love a dead man can ya girls? Everytime I got the Poon and it didn't turn into family I saw it as a failure, of judgement, discipline, or both! But then again, I'm not necessarily common.

  • You knew there was a double standard before you had sex. And yet you chose to do it anyway. So why are you complaining about it now?

  • If a key can open many locks, it's a master key. If a lock can be opened by any key, it's a shitty lock.

  • Yup totally agree! Its pretty dumb...

  • You are right

  • Biology.
    The Breakdown of "Why is it ok for a guy to sleep around and not ok for a girl".

  • A key that can open many locks is a good key; a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock

  • That isn't going to change despite the fact that you feel it is unfair, and you might be right.

  • It has been that way for centuries. It is not going to change any time soon, if it ever changes at all.

  • This double standard really pisses me off too. Weather it benefits guys or girls.
    For example in tv when music artists post scantly clad women on their vids the feminists come knocking at their door. But when artists like Christina Agulera or Rhiana dress down. it's "Female empowerment". Bottom line we should have same standards for all!

  • I know yeah, there's tonnes of double standards against men

  • guys set the standards thousands of years ago

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