(18+) Stupid question to ask, but I want to understand why some girls are different from others?

[SilverRain92]

All of us know that girls hate receiving dick pics from random guys and even not from random ones too. They feel disguise so it's not a good idea to send them such pictures anyway.

But a few girls told me that they actually like recieving dick pics even from guys they barely know and looking at such pictures makes them horny. So they experience the exactly same reaction like guys do when they see girls nudes

So I am curious why it happens. Why do some girls react like that and what it depends on? 🤔

P. S. Nothing in my question should be understood as a call for sending dick pics, it's disrespectful in any case

[AmandaYVR]

There are exceptions to everything in life.
But generally speaking, almost all females dislike random, unsolicited, nudes being sent to them.
The reason so many guys do it is:
1. They can't, or don't want to, comprehend that females are not the same as them. It's not a treat, a gift. Not even close.
2. Guys think there's no harm, or risk, in trying/doing it. What this does is disgust, anger, turn off females, who in turn pass along these negative feelings onto all other non-creep guys. It snowballs, creates a worse and worse, skeptical, dynamic between the sexes. Then good guys feel ignored, disrespected, unwanted.
3. Female attraction (and even often sexuality) is more personalized, less objectified, and more person-specific. As they build familiarity and a relationship with men, the odds of them wanting to engage in some amount of sexual talk, or imagery, or sex itself, goes up. Average female wanting a random dick pick from a complete stranger - very, very, very, low chance. She could be in the mood, yes. She could also be a man posing as a girl.

More info here:
Guys, Let's Talk About Dick Pics: To Send or Not to Send?

[SilverRain92]

Thanks for a very informative and interesting reply. I think making girls feel angry and disgusted is too stupid. I wish all messengers and social media would get a special filter which would filter out and remove dick pics

[AmandaYVR]

You're welcome. 👍

[DizzyDesii]

I dont care for dick pics because it does nothing for me. Im not gonna get off to a picture. And if anything, its gonna make me judgmental. Im gonna stare at it til i find something i dont like about it. And then im not gonna wanna fuck it lol. So i just rather see the dick on video or in person where im likely to not judge, but just love/suck/fuck it

[SilverRain92]

Yeah, a real thing is always better than just a picture 😂 If everything is consensual of course. A picture isn't able to make a girl to feel good, I agree

[weysally]

I will answer with a question, why are men so different, if we were all the same it would be a boring world, I don't like to receive dick pics at all, the attraction for me from men is their eyes

[SilverRain92]

That's nice that you prefer emotional connection :) Men have different personalities and were educated differently but I guess that their physiological reaction is similar, most of men need visual stimulation

[TrueConfection]

I don't like them either and I don't have a lot of respect for guys who randomly flash their genitals.

[SilverRain92]

Flashing genitals is definitely a rude thing to do

[Vanella]

In general we hate them when we didn't consent to seeing a dick-pic. Always ask if someone actually wants one before sending it.

[SilverRain92]

I don't like to do it at all. I don't understand why some guys do it if 99% of girls find it disgusting. I asked this question just in order to learn more about girls' psychology

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

People are different. Very different.
Girls are people.
That is all.

Don't just sent just for precaution.

[Zenpanda]

Well I couldn't have said it any better

[SilverRain92]

I know that people are different, that's obvious

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

You asked what it depends on. Well it depends on the girl's personality.