Lost virginity... cramps... pounded cervix or pregnancy?

[misssouthernbelle]

My boyfriend and I finally figured out why he couldn't keep a hard on long enough for us to get it in and start thrusting - the condoms he had were causing him to lose most sensation and with a new brand, he was hard as a rock and ready to go - and so, I lost my virginity this morning, cowgirl style. Whenever he went limp and pulled out the first time, the condom stayed inside me. As soon as I saw his bare dick, I freaked out and pulled it out. I'm on birth control, but I'm so damn paranoid about getting pregnant before I'm ready, so I wanted the condom as a backup sense of protection. I don't think any cum got inside of me, but I have no way of knowing whether it slipped off when he went limp and pulled out or if it came off during the act. We had sex two more times today, but because of how many times he has came over the last two days and his lack of stamina because it's been so long for him, he didn't come the last two times and had a hard time keeping it hard. What's worrying me is that I'm having slight cramps tonight. We did thrust roughly each time, but his dick is kinda on the smaller side of normal. He's probably over 5 inches, so I guess I'm worried that this is a sign of pregnancy (from the slipped off condom) rather than a pounded cervix. However, there was a slight twinge of discomfort when we would thrust hard, so was that my cervix being pounded? It kinda felt good and this was my first time, so I'm not sure if that's what a cervix being pounded feels like or not. I'm just wondering if I need to go get some Plan B in the morning. I start with my sugar pills tonight, as my period will be this week, so I thought I was at a low risk for pregnancy right now, but I'm still terrified because of these cramps, which I rarely get unless I'm already to the bleeding part of my period. Any ideas? Is it my cervix or possible pregnancy?

[WillowTree]

Your chances are low. You used two forms of birth control and one held. Don't worry. As long as you took your pills you should be fine. Those cramps might be your real period starting so just give it time. If you take Plan B it might delay your period. Just hold off and wait. You should be fine. Tell him to ease up during sex or just stop having it for a while until you're not so sore anymore. Fist pump for being a responsible young person and having a back up plan.

[selmo93]

Your very low risk. Don't worry so much.
You wouldn't have pregnancy symptoms til after 2 weeks and it's probably as it was your first few times it does get cramps

[Miss_Behave]

You don't get pregnant that quickly.
I believe it's just your cervix or its just cramped muscle from all the different positions from all those sessions.

[misssouthernbelle]

Whew. Plus, I'm on birth control, but I'm always afraid of being that 2%. The more I think about how it hurts, the more it doesn't feel like normal period cramps. Just a dull ache that's more central.

[Miss_Behave]

Yea, I understand how you'd be worried. I get bit paranoid too evert time I have sex cos he usually doesn't use a condom and just pulls out. I'm on the pill and get so relieved whenever I get my period. But Yea, that cramp sounds very normal to me. Don't worry!

[strawberrysouffle]

Any signs of pregnancy wouldn't show that early on. Looks to me as if you have a really (almost non-existent) small chance of being pregnant. Don't worry.

[Dim_121]

It is most likely more than just your cervix. When you have sex your using all of your pelvic muscles. You normally don't use all of them so much so I'm sure that they are all soar. Which is making your cramps amplify. Actually it could just be gas in your intestines moving and because your muscles are still rebuilding they could be feeling like cramps.
Your not pregnant girl. You would not be feeling it so suddenly.

[Anonymous]

5inches can't reach the cervix little he has a tiny dick let me guess little white boy u need my 10 inch black dick gurl