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Okay, I realize most of you are already getting your "it's what you do with it that counts" answer ready, but I acknowledge that fact. So no need to remind me. What I'm truly curious about is why do girls try and hide that they don't like big d***s? Sure not all, but a hell of a lot more than those who say they don't. I mean, if girls didn't like bigger sized d***s, then why do the ones who say its the motion of the ocean own an 8' dildo in the nightstand behind them?       I'm of average size. But when girls say it's what you do with it that counts, I can't help but think this. A guy who has a 6 inch d*** who is a great performer in bed is a great catch. But then again some other guy comes along with a 7-8 who is an equally great lover, what's to stop her from going to him?             Girls can always counter with the pressure that guys give them about their boobs, but number 1, Plastic surgery is a safe way around that. Guys have that option too, but it isn't as safe. 2, breasts aren't a single defining feature for women as it is for guys, and 3, breasts are ( aside from breast feeding ), purely aesthetic to a guy and are judged by preference. When you have been sat next to a group of older females like I have,(23 - 28) and they have talks about size. It's shocking! The things I've heard. " I can't have sex with anything less than 7." or how about those stories in college? Girls get all excited and act like they saw a shooting star when they see a big d*** that they can do stuff to. Don't tell me it's not true, because many girls have agreed with me that it DOES matter. Its not like the media came up with bigger is better out of nowhere. Its nothing more than an over exaggerated truth. Girls talk. And I'm talking about girls who aren't afraid to be open and truthful. Not ones who lie. All I'm asking is why do girls hide this unfortunate truth?

selfishstars · Accepted Answer

Size does play a role in female pleasure. This is because most of the pleasure we feel internally comes from pressure and friction. A larger penis creates more pressure against the vaginal walls, which also results in more friction. This is why a lot of girls say that girth is actually more important than length. However, it isn't the case that the bigger a guy is, the more pleasurable sex is, because there's a point where it starts to be painful. Further, as you've acknowledged, there's a hell of a lot more to being a good lover than just having a large penis. These are things like chemistry, skill, enthusiasm, caring about your partner's pleasure, good communication, willingness to learn, willingness to try new things, etc. To me, these things are actually more important than penis size---if a guy doesn't have these things, it doesn't matter what his penis size is, I'm probably not going to enjoy it.

From talking to guys, both online and in real life, I honestly think that guys care more about penis size than girls do. I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of other girls think the same. And I understand that there are a lot of things working to make them insecure---porn where the majority of guys have large penises, advertisements for penis-enhancement products, overhearing (some) women talk about how they prefer a big penis, etc.

But when a guy posts a question regarding penis size on here, it just makes me want to tell him, "Look! Your penis size doesn't matter as much as you think it does!"

1. Penis size is not directly correlated with ability to pleasure your partner---all the things I mentioned above are more important, and a lot of girls don't orgasm from vaginal intercourse (clitoral stimulation is more important for their pleasure and you don't need a big penis to bring a girl to orgasm/satisfy her).

2. I don't date guys (or even sleep with them) based on their penis size. I date or sleep with them because I like THEM. Most girls are the same. I don't even know what size a guy's penis is when I decide to go on a date with him or start fooling around with him. And I wouldn't break up with a guy or refuse to sleep with him if it turned out he was on the smaller side.

So yeah, size can play a role in female pleasure, but it's not as important to most girls as most guys think it is, so we don't want guys to get all hung up and insecure about it. I don't want guys to feel ashamed or to think I'm going to be disappointed or that they won't be able to pleasure me. Because it's not true.

aster · Accepted Answer

ever thought that a big penis might hurt?

because you know, it's big and if a guy doesn't know what he is doing he is really just stabbing/pounding away at your uterus, and it's especially true that a guy needs to be careful if the chick is small and doesn't have that much experience.

secret: a lot of women don't get an internal, vaginal orgasm, so size for them really DOESN"T matter.

msanonymous · Answer

The best orgasm of my life was with a guy who's penis was maybe six inches max. The sad truth is guys with bigger think they don't have to do any work kinda like a pretty girl who just lays there.it doesn't matter at all to me part of it is the excitement and more importantly willingness to please your partner the girls you are speaking of are just that girls not women. If you don't know this already you've never had good sex!

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