How can you tell if a guy is a virgin?

[Anonymous]

This guy I like told me last year he is a virgin and that he wants to marry a virgin girl too, but one of my other friends overheard him talking to some slutty girl about sex, and he told her he's not a virgin. Was he telling me the truth because he likes me and we had discussions about marriage and also I'm a good girl? and perhaps he had to lie to the slutty girl because a guy can't tell an experienced girl he's a virgin. No? Are there any physical cues to spot to confirm he is a virgin besides following your heart?

[Anonymous]

I am a virgin guy and while I can understand why the guy did what you say he did, I think it is a red flag. There are two options: either he's lying to you, or he's lying to the "slutty girl". My instinct would say he lied to the slutty girl because he was afraid. The problem with that is that it makes him insecure.

I wouldn't date someone I couldn't trust. If I thought I couldn't be honest with them about my sexuality, I would stay away. So him having to tell someone he's not a virgin means he's embarrassed about it. That's natural because guys are supposed to have casual sex with everything that moves, so there is often shame (or at least some such thought) among myself and some of the other guys here who haven't had sex. Not every virgin guy has a pocket protector and can't talk to women; I've dated six girls so far this month in hopes of finding a relationship partner.

There are no physical clues on a guy except for when you have sex with him. Even then, I think if you really like him by now, the sex would still be decent for you and it would be hard to tell. Plus, virgins these days are more enlightened than before, what with sex everywhere. It's easy to look on Google and find a step-by-step guide for having sex. So the only thing you can do is ask him and trust your gut. If you are in a serious relationship, you both have to be honest. I am looking for a girl like you or at least one who, even if she had a number of partners, is open to who I am. The only question I'd ask is why he's talking to slutty girls about sex if he doesn't plan to have it with them.

[ilovelegs]

There's no way of knowing if a guy is a virgin or not other than what he tells you or others tell you that have had sex with him. Other than that, when you have sex with a guy that tells you he's a virgin, you should be able to tell if it's his first time because he'll just be awkward and very inexperienced just like you if you're a virgin. About like someone bowling for the first time, etc. So you should give him the benefit of the doubt until you know different yourself or from very reliable sources. Yes, follow your heart, but also follow what he tells you plus other very reliable sources.

[MelissaO]

Hey ,

There is absolutely no way of knowing if he is a virgin,

If he decides to be honest then maybe, you will know the truth, some guys will say they are to sound like they are trying to save them selves and some will try and look big and say they have sex every night they can, when really for all you know they don't and haven't .

-MelissaO-x.o.x

[ggazelles]

You can't tell if a guy is a virgin, you can only tell if he's good or bad in bed. If he's good in bed, then I would suspect that he was lying about being a virgin. Unfortunately, to figure this out, you would have to have sex with him.

[virginpirate]

Study him socially, I am a virgin guy and the way I act is really normal. But if he looks depressed once in a while maybe its because he never had a Girlfriend before, like me. AND I ONLY TOLD A MORE EXPERIENCED GIRL ONCE, because she was trying to get me drunk and get laid, so I said it to get her to back off, other than that I lie to nonvirgin girls about it unless they are a close friend. Also the first time you guys go at it he will probably suck unless he practiced a lot with dirty magazines and did his reasearch lol.

Use your brain, and heart. Good luck.

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[Anonymous]

Usually the guy that either acts super awkward during a conversation about sex or the one that acts too experienced is a virgin if some one really had sex they would understand that it is something private, if someone asks me if I had sex I usually just say it's my private business 🤷‍♂️

[Anonymous]

One of the main things with maintaining virginity is the fear of embarressment with the opposite sex. I'm a virgin guy; I mean I could be a total manwhore if I wanted to be.but I'd rather just lose it to someone I care about.

He told the whore that he wasnt a virgin, cause he was affraid of being made fun of because of lack of experience. Guys make fun of other guys for being virgins.alot of teasing goes on. That's why he did what he did, he wanted to look good to the status quo.

No physical cues.I'm 20, great physical shape and was asked to model a few times, yet I'm still a virgin. You can never tell.I suprise girls all the time.Its quite amusing.

Good Luck; sweetheart.

[Anonymous]

watch the movie "The 40 year old virgin"