My girlfriend of 3 years wants me to get circumcised?

I have always wished I was circumcised at birth and envied guys who were circumcised. I brought it up to her a few months ago and we both agree I should do it. The problem is I think it will be super painful and I will have to miss a lot of work. Has anyone here had an adult circumcision? Do you like it? Painful? Are you glad you did it?
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Should have made it clearer.. this is my idea and she is all for it
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  • I got circumcised at 16 years old and I thought it would be incredibly painful but it wasn't as painful as thought.

    I'll explain... You get your foreskin cut off and your head (penis) is exposed... The only time it hurts is when it rubs against your clothes but thats like a 6.5 out od 10

    But when you're laying down it just feels tight like a tiny hair is wrapped around it (0.0 out of 10).

    Get it done bro trust me it won't be painful unless it rubs against your clothes.

    After a week or 2 after your head is exposed.. Get a bath (not a shower) i've never felt anything like if in my life but fuck me the pressure of the water of the head feels pathetically amazing :P

    Good luck bro!

    • Thanks.. I have a big pain tolerance but the thought of it is scary

    • And how old are you now?

    • I'm 19 now

  • I just wanted you to know that circumcision is still a practice not because it's "better" but because it's a cultural phenomenon, because back in the day they claimed that if you are circumcised, you won't masturbate - as masturbation was supposedly the cause of hysteria and many problems.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gCSWbTv3hng



    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1302451-um-what-exactly-is-the-circumcision-process-like-does-it-make-the
    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1330206-what-s-the-point-of-circumcision

    It's probably not as idyllic as you think.

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  • Do it if it's your will. you're an adult. in my opinion it's pointless, waste of money, time and energy.

    a mature woman should enjoy uncircumcised penis, a mature man should accept his body the way it looks.

    "I have always wished I was circumcised at birth and envied guys who were circumcised."

    I think you have a real problem of insecurity here. And I hope it doesn't make you take away having this choice from your child.

    • No kids for me but if I did they would have been circumcised. insecure no... preference yes

    • "insecure no" my ass. It's always insecurity that causes people to take away the rights of others when they are knowledgeable enough to know better. You know that there are many men who would have preferred not to have been circed, but you only care about yourself.

  • Its very risky, some people end up with a severed penis. You might want it for cosmetic/ religious or "hygienic reasons" but at the end of the day, the risks outweigh the benefits. And you don't have too, it should be your choice, and your choice alone. Good luck.

    • I know this has already happened but how incompetent and dumb does a surgeon have to be to cut off one's penis although he's just supposed to remove the foreskin O. o? WTF

    • I know, but mistakes are possible as the surgeon is only human. Although in the USA they sometimes use electricity to remove the foreskin. Please bear in mind that should an accident happen, you will have a hard time establishing medical negligence as it is a policy of many states around the world that hospitals and their employees cannot be sued for actions that result in a loss or injury of a patient. I just wouldn't do it, nor would I ask my significant other to do this.

    • i wouldn't say its very risky, i think a very very small percentage of people end up with a severed penis lol but i do agree, its kind of pointless. Why?

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  • If you choose to do it, do it for you, not for your girlfriend.
    It's not cool for any significant other, male or female, to suggest or request that their partner gets a physical alteration surgery due to "their likes". Not cool.

    • I suggested it, just not looking forward to the procedure

    • You should look into what happened to a celebrity named Omarion when he got circumcised around your age. They ended up removing a significant amount of his penis.

    • I have extra lol jk I will look into it

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  • Only do it if you really want to do it. Not just because she wants you to be circumcised. Think about it very carefully. There are only esthetic benefits to circumcision.

    • I think the sensation would be better also... I have talked to many people about it

    • Apparently you lose sensation because the head is always exposed, but I have no idea of course. There's also none of the natural gliding that happens with an uncut penis.

    • I think that is a selling point for people who are against circumcision. If anything it will remain the same

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  • I think if you're really positive and exited about it, then go for it.
    and like musicbrain5 said , If anything, Its just gonna increase the aesthetic look of it. I feel you have gotten used to of having a foreskin and not just you your dick too. I wonder if you will feel very dry on ur glans/head if u do it now.
    but if u feel positive, then go for it. If you're just neutral about it, then i say drop it.

    • I've been wanting to do it for years

    • Then just do it, you are ready!

  • Yes, it WILL be super painful. And it will not give you any proven benefits.

    I'd say, you'd rather get a new girlfriend than permanently mutilate your junk.

    • My idea not hers

    • He says and quote "I have always wished I was circumcised at birth and envied guys who were circumcised." It sounds to me he has been thinking about this for a while and doesn't have anything to do with his girlfriend in fact it seems maybe she is just being supportive of his choice.

    • Fine then. If you're ok with the extreme pain, missing work (like you said) AND permanently losing a part of your penis which has thousands of pleasure inducing nerve endings, then go ahead and do it. I'd suggest you not to.

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  • Yeah, I had it done. I was off for a week, it's probably possible to go back sooner, but i booked a week off.

    The first day is painful, after that it's not bad apart from getting erections in the night.

    I like it, I'm glad I did it.

    Cost is something to worry about, adult circumcision is not that cheap.

    • Haven't checked into cost yet.. How old were you?

    • mid 30's

    • why did you do it?

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  • If you're happy with how you are, don't change. If you want to do it for your own reasons, not hers, then go for it!

    • I really want to, just wish I didn't have to

  • I think you should leave it alone. It will be very painful.

    If you really want to, you should ask them to give you anesthesia or something

    • I'm guessing you are numb during procedure it's the healing that will be painful

  • if u both agree... then FINE basically!

    • chop chop

  • I just have to ask, why are you doing it? Are there medical issues, or just aesthetics? Or something else? What did you envy about guys who were circumcised? I couldn't image having that done.

    • To those looking through these replies, notice that the Asker never bothers to answer questions of this nature. The only thing we know is that he's "always" wished he was circed and envies circed penises. One can only wonder what his real motivations are.

  • If you want to then go ahead

    Just remember that's it's purely an aesthetic operation. So if a pretty cock is worth going under the knife, then go ahead and slice that shit off.

    Or do it African style. Just stretch the foreskin over a rock and chop it off.

    • I think I saw a video of that.. ouch

    • Seriously. I bitch about my junk getting tussled in my underwear And those guys are chopping off their foreskin with machetes...

  • I think you're nuts and you'll regret it.

    @Mesonfielde sort this loony out!

  • I only have one thing to say. WHY?

    • You hear girls complain about boobs to small, labia to large, hips to narrow or wide and think nothing of it but if a guy wants a circumcision it's crazy? Are your boobs real?

    • Yea & their to big. lol

    • I was only wondering the reasons for you wanting it done?

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  • Why would you want to do that?

    • I prefer it that way

    • Why? You never experienced it, so how can you say you prefer it when you've never had it?

  • I got it done at 21.
    The sensitivity dropped significantly, but it does look nicer and is less trouble to clean. Girls like it more now.

    • And how old are you now?

    • 24. Modes it say that next to my name?

    • *Doesnt not modes. (Fuckin auto correct.)

  • There are doctors you can ask these questions to

    • The next step

  • Having done this for a girlfriend who then left me... I have no regrets and would of done it sooner had I known.

    My girlfriend of 1 year asked me to get it done as she didn't like me uncut due to odour,,, etc.

    I got snipped and after 3 weeks I've noticed virtually no reduction in sensitivity, I can last much longer now than before and my head glands have gotten a lot bigger which some girls like, with a slight loss in some mid-shaft girth. But my penis looks so sexy now.

    But the I've only witnessed the benefits of circumcision after my girlfriend dumped me and I started dating and sleeping around. It appears practically every woman prefers a cut tool. Before getting a blowjob was difficult from a girl, now they voluntarily do it. And a lot of one night stands now call me back, which never happened before

    If you're keen on it I suggest you get a 'Loose High Circumcision" which keeps the Frenulum intact and removes some shaft skin.

  • holy crap! this is a thing at this age? I would never chop a piece of my dick off for a girl never.

    • I live in America where circumcision is common.. not sure why my parents decided against it

    • If it's really that important to you than by all means. Good luck. Weather it's common or not i think any form of surgery at that area, at your age is not worth the potential complications. I'm hoping she's just supporting you and is not vocally "for it". The precedent that would set in the relationship is big.

    • Asker, they probably valued your right to make modifications to your own damn genitals. This isn't rocket science.

  • I got it done at 15. Don't do it... seriously. I came out in a wheelchair. The worst part... boners you can't control kinda reopens the wound

    • I have less uncontrollable boners than a 15 year old I think. The problem will be nocturnal erections and my girlfriend will have to sleep in another room until it heals

    • Nocturnal boners==boners you can't control

    • Yeah I won't sleep well until it heals, I'm ok with that

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  • Damn... you're doing that for her? OUCH!!!

    • lmao!

    • and myself

    • You MUST be in love!!!

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