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I usually suggest starting with a BDSM checklist, it has a list of stuff with the idea that you rate each item, I like this idea, but have never done it, I have done this and I like it ___ much etc. I also wrote a My Take on the psychology of submissive men that you might find interesting, and I could suggest a few products if you are serious about the whole "punishment" thing. I'll include a few links:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a21609-a-brief-overview-submissive-men
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1344370-girls-here-s-an-interesting-product-what-do-you-think
asubmissivesinitiative.wordpress.com/.../1 0 0 0Thank you for the links, they were quite helpful.
Thanks for MHO
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Google. Not even joking. There is so much out there, you just have to search for it.
1 1 0 0Thank you for mho
Punishing him would be exactly what a Femdom would do... go for it!
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0 16Generally you have to tie him up and... well, didn't you see his browsing history? if you see at least one of the porn he actually watched (and didn't just skip into and realize it was shit and close it like I do with most porn -.-) then you can get some ideas.
Although there are so many girls into BDSM here that I'm sure they can turn their things around and tell you what they like as a self-proclaimed "submissive" person.
It's odd that this question isn't more popular.0 0 0 0I have experience as a Dom. You can PM me.
0 0 0 0That's pretty hot why don't you private message me and I'll fill you in
0 0 0 0The important thing is to remember that you are in charge so don't ask him what he wants.
You could watch some videos yourself to get ideas. Some possibilities are CFNM (clothed female naked male), chastity cages, paddling, clothes pegs and pegging.
He's your toy for you to explore femdom.0 0 0 0Try bondage maybe. Tie him to the bed, and then tease him, keep him on edge for a long time.
In a non sexual situation, grab his head, shove it under your skirt, showing him you are not wearing panties, and say "eat me, now."
Or buy this and leave it laying around after you read it. (I have not, but it seems to have good reviews) www.amazon.com/.../ref=sr_1_10 0 0 0It is great you went from "My husband was looking at sick porn" to "how do I start..."
Make him kneel and be agressive about it and wear some heels and something latex or a sexy dress then let him kiss your feet undress and wear panties then ask him to lay over your lap spank him and question him about his porn and say your his only mistress
0 0 0 0you should get a strap on and walk into the bedroom wearing it. he will probably cum seeing you like that
0 1 0 0Chasity for a week or ruined orgasms or slaps
0 0 0 0Ruined orgasm, chastity/cock cage, self-facial (cumming on his own face), wear women's underwear to work, collar and leash him, make him do chores naked, tie him up so he's fully restrained and have sex with him but as soon as he comes inside you sit on his face and make him eat you out, no sex for him, but only let him masturbate if he cums in his hand and eats it, peg him with a strapon, only let him penetrate you with a cock-extender/hollow strapon his dick goes in. Or a combination of him wearing both a chastity device and a strapon. role-play a scen he was watching.
0 1 0 0Try it if you want to start somewhere stomp on his manhood and tell him his only purpose for the night is to be your toy and don't stop smashing him until he understands once he does than decide where you want to go with it.
0 0 0 0Facesitting
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0 0 0 0Depending on how much you want to go into it. Maybe try restraining him in bed all the way to wearing kinky lingerie (latex, big boots, gloves, etc) and using a whip.
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