As a woman with a guy who also has a big penis, I could give you my advise. Most important thing: Make sure you are aroused enough, then you don't need to use lube. One time I wasn't wet enough down under, and it hurt when he tried to push his penis inside me. Stop when that happens, relax and go 'play around' some more.
Waxing and shaving is all about personal preference. My man doesn't care if I am shaving myself down under (or anywhere).
My guy didn't look at what I was wearing. It's not that big of a deal.
What is important is that you feel confident with yourself, and that you feel pretty. Then it doesn't matter.
I lost mine when I was 15 and regret it today. To who and how etc. You're very young and have lots of time. In my opinion, wait. Sex isn't enjoyable when you're a teenager. It's amazing in your 20's and even better in your 30's. It will hurt. You may bleed and not to mention the emotional consequences of it. Prepare yourself for the "what if he stops talking to me after" and not so much being "loose" enough... it's a really big deal my friend. You have a lot of questions, so you don't seem mentally prepared to do such a thing yet.
It's important to be well fingered so that it loosens your vagina, when you're aroused your vagina is capable of expanding and contracting! So whichever method of hair removal would make you happier, I personally like none, I like the softness but it all depends on what you want. Pretty underwear is always nice and makes you feel great.
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Most important is for you to relax and feel comfortable and ready. Make sure he gets you fully aroused/wet before trying to have sex. Lube would be a safe back up. Have him take it slow, don't just let him do what he wants, as your the one that will be in pain.
You might want to read my answer here:
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That was helpful, thanks! I'm used to tampons, but do you think it won't hurt even if he is well endowed?
It probably won't hurt if you're very horny at that moment. BUT (Under 18) you might want to wait a bit.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I wouldn't bother shaving or waxing your pubic hair... just trim it... legs ya shave them and arm pits. Pretty underwear is probably a good idea... but it is common to wear pretty underwear all the time so that isn't a big deal... lots and lots and lots of lube. Lots of foreplay as well
Just be fresh and shave/wax what you want. 'Most important thing to prepare you for each and every time you have sex is to ask yourself "Would I mind having to raise a child with this person?" Yea, it's a mental cock block but it's smart and you should always be smart when you're giving a bit of yourself away.
Foreplay is very important. Use lube if he is to big. Yes you have to look sexy and be clean shaven or waxed. I know wax hurt but its your choice.
Don't be in such a hurry! Remember, you are a special & beautiful young lady. Think about it & make sure u are ready... Its a big step😊
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