Do you get horny late at night?

I'm not sure why but even after, and especially after, a sexual encounter at night I get extremely horny and have to have more sexual stimulation even after my counterpart has fallen asleep... IT DRIVES ME UP THE WALLS!

If I am alone and try masturbating, that will rarely satisfy my sexual craving late at night before I fall asleep... I always want more!
Do you get horny late at night?
Since I don't have any other vices, I wonder if that has anything to do with my maybe bordering on sexual neurosis at times. Like I don't smoke or do drugs or drink alcohol... sex is my only vice. When people have other vices does that take their mind off of sex? ... like if you are in a drunken or drug induced stupor, won't that make you lazy or tired and not wanting to think about sex?
Do you get horny late at night?
Do you get horny late at night?
Am I the only one this happens too? ... I know the problem, but I don't seem to be able to do anything about it for some reason. I don't know what to do, or if it is even a problem that needs a cure?

Should I just keep my mouth shut about this? I know most people don't even like these type of questions... I'm sorry
Do you get horny late at night?
Do you get horny late at night?
A. Yes, you are a serious nut case Laurie and need to seek professional help right away!
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Do you get horny late at night?
B. No, you are not the only one who gets like that, I do it too at times
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Do you get horny late at night?
C. I do not get like that but I know one, or more, others that do
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D. I think what you are describing is a classic case of nymphomania which may eventually go away on it's own
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E. You are OK, there is nothing wrong with having a high sex drive, some have it and some don't. It doesn't make you a bad person because you have one
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F. OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Eternally Horny " survey
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  • I'd say it's fairly normal.

    A story:

    I've always had a tough time falling asleep - I usually watch some TV, most often comedies - that I don't need to concentrate on, and it's just enough to disengage my brain and allow me to fall asleep, but I still get bouts of insomnia, and if I'm woken up by something in the middle of the night, I can rarely go back to sleep quickly - sometimes not at all.

    With that background, I made it a point not to wake my girl for sex in the middle of the night if I was still horny and she was sleeping. She'd still occasionally wake me up, or, more often, figure out I was still awake and initiate some more, but I never wanted to wake up a soundly sleeping girl, because it was so hard for me to go back to sleep.

    My third serious girlfriend, who slept over a lot, one day made some comment about waking me up at night for sex, and I said something to the effect that I'd wanted to, but let her sleep. I kind of expected to earn some points from her for being a "good boyfriend" and "not making it all about sex" - so I was pretty surprised, in my naivety, to discover that she was MAD, and not play mad, but REALLY upset. She made it crystal clear that she was good to go ANYTIME, and that she fully expected me to wake her up for sex ANY and EVERY TIME I found myself awake and horny in the night. And, so, from then on, I did, and to her credit, she never once complained about being woken up, even if she was exhausted at work the next day.

    Since then, I've made a point of asking my girlfriends what they preferred, and while a few were more like me and preferred to be allowed to sleep, MOST of them very enthusiastically wanted to be woken up for sex. So, at least in my limited experience, you are hardly unique.

    • Well damn.

  • It happens to me too that's when i go to sexual fiction on deviant art or write my own :)

    • Good solution :)

    • It seems to work for me

    • Thank you for the mho! :)

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  • I am actually working on a my take about the very same subject you mentioned
    Out of curiosity does your sexual peaks leave you feeling guilty afterwards or have you ever done something that you shouldn't have done cuz you know you're in a relationship?
    I know I have an extreme sexual desire.
    Sometimes my man isn't enough
    Nothing to do with him
    It's all me
    Right now I'm waiting for him to be asleep so I can sneak into the bed and masturbate quietly so he doesn't feel like he's not enough
    to help with the peaks I go on here and I answer questions and give advice but that's it I won't cross the line no sexting I won't send individual pictures in pm/dm no videos or phone number trading.
    I'm not a party going bar hopping girl for the most part I'm very calm in nature in a homebody. I'm actually very religious and I do go to church. My personalities Clash. I Feel like I have high morals and I can be very classy but being sexually hypersensitive contradicts the other part of me.
    It's confusing at times but I try not to have it define me I am many more things then this one thing. I am sexually hyper but I am also creative so I tried to use writing as an outlet which is what I'm doing here I'm simply relieving the pressure via writing.

    • Wow, we are so much alike, it sounds like I am writing what you said! My girlfriends father is a pastor so sometimes I go to her church but she is not into it as much as her dad and has a boyfriend that she has sex with but still tries to be a good christian girl in every other way and I am the same. I know I have nymphomania and maybe you do as well, it is just a lack of total control over a high sex drive is all. I would never cheat on anyone I was having a relationship with but right now I am not in one and enjoy having sex with others but I am bi and it ends up being with other girls most of the time. You are OK, nothing wrong with anything you are doing at all Ms Kitty!

    • I think it's call sexual hypersensitivity now a days lol but yes our stories do song very much a identical Some people who have sexual hypersensitivity tend to cheat but thank goodness a church-going kicks in And I remind myself that's not what I want. I don't even engage in sex when I'm not inside an exclusive long-term relationship. When I'm single I stick to masturbation and porn.

    • That's good, I don't judge, but support what ever someone thinks is best for them as long as they are not hurting themselves or others :)

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  • I am pretty. much horny all the time, thoughts are never far from my mind. I try not to relieve myself. too often as I would hate to lose the sensation of it like the main character in the film 'Nymohomaniac part 1 and 2'. I try to channel the energy into other things like writing etc.

    I don't think I have a problem or anything and feel it is natural, we just have a different experience of it individually.

    • Regardless of not relieving yourself, so you have frequent sexual interactions?

    • More or less yes, we are only human after all. No one is truly the same, some people have little or no sex drive, others have a real problem with it. I guess on a scale of 1-10, I would say mine is about a 8/9 depending on the circumstances.

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  • I think it's normal. Anyways, but especially those that don't sleep well, and especially if there's someone in bed naked next to you

  • yes I do big time. But then again its always there for the whole day.

  • The classic explanation for nymphomania is that a girl had an unfulfilled need for love from her father, when she was a child, and she attracts men with sex hoping to find love. Of course, sex and love are two different things and non-stop sex will make your genitals feel good temporarily but will not satisfy the need for love.

    Instead of talking about sex, Laurie, let's talk about love. Have you ever been in love in a romantic relationship? How did that work out for you?

    • Yes, I felt rejected by him. I know that is big part of the problem, yes.

      True Love! Is It Ever Attainable? ↗

    • What you described in your other post sounds like infatuation and not love. Is that correct? You work for your father so you are close to him in at least some ways. Do you feel loved by your father?

    • Yes, I don't have any problems with either of my parents they are all but perfect and supportive. I am too particular about finding the right guy. No one is ever good enough so I stick with other girls most of the time but that leaves a void for the perfect guy is all.

  • yes, very common... especially after some good sex. it seems like my body wants an encore performance...

  • No only morning time.

  • Tell me about!! Drives me off the wall!! even after he gave me multiple orgasm... then we cum at the same time... still not done... He helps me more in his loving way... still really frustrated.
    other times wake up in the middle of the night... and feel so bad to wake him up. Done it before.
    you make me feel I am not alone in this!! 💕😘

    • You're not! I didn't know you had it that bad too. Most who don't can't understand the frustration at times :(

  • Horny is my natural state. If ever I'm not horny I'd start to question my own health.

    It's weird how this has become the normal for me but that's how it is.

  • I don't know what 'normal' is - but trust me, you are definitely not the only one sugar :-)

  • Totally feel ya. I love having partners that like having sex multiple times at night.


    So sexy when she says,


    “Any time you’re hard, I’m always down to fu*ck.”

  • Just don't let your urges ruin something good cause they definitely can. Be careful.

  • It’s not just you.. and if it were me that was laying next to you and I fell asleep, I’d have no problem waking up to my dick inside your wet pussy while you made yourself cum again.. just don’t get upset if I empty my balls up inside you while you’re getting off

  • Sometimes I myself feel so.

  • Good, I am not the only one I am very sexual to the point I could fuck multiple times a day After I have sex I am pretty much ready to go again after like an hour or so , pretty much time for me to reload but even if I am not reloaded I will do other things to her until I am ready to stick it back in , I have no problem going down on her eating her and fingering her until I am reloaded , But it’s usually the girls I been with that can take breaks from sex , if I find a girl that loves sex like me then I would be very happy

  • Yeah sometimes

    • Funny cause for guys it’s more in the morning

  • Of course, Laurie! But weekends when I wake up naturally (opposed to an alarm clock), I find myself much more alive.

  • No, it's more during the day for me

  • I'm pretty much always horny.
    I'm horny right now lol
    I'm not choosing to be though. It just happens.

  • E was my pick... i can be similar at times... as in now as it's late at night and i'm crazy horny :)

    • @laurieluvsit thanks for the timely pics ha :)

  • As long as you're not hurting anyone (unless that's what they like) or messing with kids you're good I would have sex several times a day every day if my SO could hang as long as you're not flaking on your responsibilities then get yours don't let anybody try and make you feel ashamed or like you have issues. They just are trying to make you boring like them. I mean sex is fun it's a good work out if you're doing it right like a marathon and it feels good so get your freak on

  • Yup.

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