Threesomes. Whether it’s the mystery, the fantasy, or simply the added pleasure of an extra someone, GAGers can’t seem to get enough of this taboo topic. We see questions from all aspects regarding threesomes, so today we’re sharing 10 of our top questions from GAG users about the topic. Check them out below!
If you have never been to the Grand Canyon but would like to go there, it sounds exciting, awesome, and inspiring. I had those thoughts for years and I wasn't sure if I would ever actually go see it.
In 1999, me wife (now ex-) and I took an extended trip out west and visited the Grand Canyon. I got out of the car, walked to the rim of the canyon, and stood there in silence for about 10 minutes. It was exciting, awesome, and inspiring. After 10 minutes, I turned to Debby and said, "Okay, now what?" Once I got beyond the initial thrill, I was over it. We left shortly thereafter and never went back. I have no desire to ever go see the Grand Canyon again.
Many fantasies work that way. Until you experience the fantasy, it is exciting because it is unknown, it is taboo and forbidden, and it is adventurous. Once you indulge in the experience, it loses some of its appeal.
I have never had a threesome and probably never will. I have read many, many posts on this subject. My impression is that a small percentage of threesome participants enjoy the experience enough to repeat it, many try it once and never try it again, and a considerable number have the experience ruin an existing relationship. I don't feel that I have missed out on much!
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AmericanPoet
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You can drop the microphone and strut offstage. Very well worded and a fantastic comparison. I too hear the porn junkies talk about how great a threesome would be. Then I tried it, guess what, it's not like in the pornos. It's awkward, it's hard to focus, and then when it's over... you probably lost a friend, girlfriend, or someone you cared about.
OlderAndWiser
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@AmericanPoet Thanks for the kind words.
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abundantlyrichMaster
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I guess now gag is trying to make threesomes sound normal but it's not. Only for the sexually extreme.
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nothingtoseeXper 4
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Me, I've been in LOTS of threesomes, all but one were MFM. I love them. I love hearing what a woman fantasizes about and what she wants to see happen. To me, it's almost like a dare, and I'll do it every time.
I'm not gay, but if a woman tells me that she's always wanted to see two guys, "together" I would be all for it! Why? Because it would turn her on.
In every threesome I've been in, I've always told them that I'm not here to take her away. I'm here for you two to use me (sexually) to fulfill your fantasies.
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amigoXper 4
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I'd partaken in a threesome two times, MMF and FFM, I don't feel proud but I wanted to share my opinion about.
On MMF I was invited by a friend who, in exchange of a FFM for him, needed his girl first being "loved" by two guys, she choose me among my friend's friends and at first, I was kind of flattered for the election. The only rule was that I wasn't allowed to go for anal and or BJ on her (my only rule was that he shouldn't try anything on me), basically I was there to have vaginal intercourse while my friend went for anal, bj and unsuccessfully tried to make "two on one" (I hope that's understandable since is kind of embarrassing to go on detail). I felt kind of weird but my thoughts tormented me after the action, during the scene I was doing was I was told by my friend (who, by the way, is still my friend). My friend went to rest half way the night and warned me to keep on the established rules. But I like the full package so being not allowed to kiss (well, not with her that night) disturbed my inspiration and she noticed it, then we stopped and we started to chat. I knew that the relation wasn't going well, she tried that to see if she can keep up with him, she wasn't interested in the other threesome. She was only following his desires. Damn, that killed my mood and didn't wanted to be there anymore. She hugged me and without kissing, just with our hands, started to make love (not just sex), neck kiss wasn't forbidden and become our mouths. My friend joined us after hearing her, he wasn't even half way to finish but when I was done, she told us that the night was over. What a way to really know a person...
When I went to FFM, I felt kind of exited (damn porno movies changing real world rules and perception of reality), my then girlfriend told me that she has a female friend who had a crush on me, and after a drinking night she decided to share me because they were BFF and she owed her a favor. For me that's was the best excuse. Months later, the relation finished (but not for this), I heard that my ex-girlfriend was collecting a favor in exchange of an old threesome she's been with her friend. I got "full service" from both but they never touched each other (damn porno movies!) so wasn't quite impressed for all by the morning. The feeling of two mouths and four hands running in your skin is quite surpassing, but I didn't get what I was expecting (damn, damn, damn porno!).
The experience was cool but I just have it marked as "done".
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callieanna84Xper 5
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I've had my fair share of threesomes and now appreciate normal sex much more! They're extremely overrated. Don't get me wrong, they're definitely fun but there's something to be said about some nice one on one with someone special you really care about.
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Littlewings85Xper 4
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I've had a MFF threesome twice (both times with me, my boyfriend at the time and a female friend) and both times we all had a lot of fun and several orgasms. I think that the female in the relationship (in my examples this being me) has to have a certain type of personality, where she is able to separate sex as an act for enjoyment and sex as part of a relationship. (For lack of better terms she is able to separate 'sex' and 'making love') If she is genuinely able to do this then there isn't the awkward jealousy or paranoia parts and everyone can just relax and have fun.
I would very much like to have a MMF threesome as I've not tried it this way. Lately though I have been having a certain fantasy about being in a three-way relationship with two men. Has anyone else who has had a threesome considered taking it further and having a relationship together with two others? What are the pros/cons of a relationship like this?
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shinymarble
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when we decide to see each other a 2nd or 3rd time it becomes a relationship of sorts - we would send notes about when where who what etc
browny-sy
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@Littlewings85 u did feel jealousy?
nothingtosee
3 mo
I was involved with a couple for several years and the sex was always great. Then again, I made it clear that I'm here for your benefit. Meaning, I'm here to fulfill YOUR fantasies. I must confess, the sex could have been kinkier, but that's ok. I have my own kinky fantasies. Maybe one day I'll be invited to engage with another couple and the sex will be kinky. If you want to talk privately, feel free to email me at nothingtosee at yahoo dot com.
WisenguberEditor
+1 y
Still on the bucket list but I much rather pay for it, that way there are no hurt feelings and secrets to keep... pay for your threesome it maybe simpler, if you are a single man. if you are involved.. YIKES! good luck...
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RawrzzYoda
+1 y
Who wouldn't get enough of threesomes? Puritans and white knights.
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Bizzaro_ElmoXper 6
+1 y
Did a FMF and it was--is the Kamehameha of sex! Would I do a MMF? Sure. But the dude has to be cool when we get her in the "sandwich." I mean you have to partner up with a dude that is really secure in himself and loves sex with women. Otherwise, sh*t is gonna get real for someone. That is the only part where one of the guys could fail. Because she, at that point, really is "the Line." And you two are basically rubbing schlongs inside her. If dude can be cool with that, then all three of you can have a good night. Others here are correct. You really shouldn't have any deep relationship if you are going to commit to a threesome. And doing it because she/he wants it will always be a bad idea. In a threesome, everyone MUST be a WILLING participant. The two girls I had my FMF with, were bi-roommates. I wasn't dating either of them. Might not have been the smartest move I've ever made considering my safety, but I'll NEVER regret it. Because there was nothing to regret. lol
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fleur-de-lysXper 5
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I would like a 3 some with guys but not with other women. I would not want to touch them because I am not attracted to women at all, and guys usually think that sex is only a game and for fun, and for me, it reflects a great connection and means something.
Good take by the way :) You should do these things more often. People will be motivated and happy :)
Chief16
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Don't know if sarcastic or...
YourFutureEx
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@Chief16 How can I lie to you now 🙈 Last year, I posted here that I'm a virgin, then a random girl replied to me that "As far as I remember, you said that you've slept with (insert number here) girls. How can you say that you're virgin?" I realised that I cannot joke on G@G anymore. This time I tried but... lol But hey, it's not like that I don't fap and I never had threesome :< _____________________________________________________ If you were talking about my 'reply' 🙊 then sorry lol. I really meant that. 🙉
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Chief16
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😂 Oh joy, consider my resignation if you ever choose leave G@G.
YourFutureEx
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@Chief16 I prolly never will :)
Chief16
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Oh cool. Aye aye captain.
farscryer0Xper 5
+1 y
Threesomes are a mixed bag. Ultimately, all parties much be cool with a number of behaviors and actions, the top two being: Everyone must be sexually interested in one another to some degree, and everyone must agree to disregard common mindsets of stable, exclusive relationships.
In other words: get along and whatever happens, happens... either speak up prior, go along for the ride, or get the hell out of the way.
Threesomes are difficult for a guy with two women, in that it doesn't take long for a guy to bust a nut. The trick is that both women need to interact and "play" with one another, giving the guy time enough to get his head on straight. Threesomes with two dudes and a woman can be fun, so long as the "no homo rules" are figured out prior to intercourse. Can only speak from experience, but I've never had one with a bisexual guy involved, so I don't know the rules for that. Mostly, both guys agree to drive the woman involved as "sexually crazy" as humanly possible, until both guys' stamina runs out. Fun but taxing, especially when the woman is a very adventurous sort.
Also, never had a 3 male or 3 female threesome, for obvious reasons.
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Danburry_electXper 5
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I can't believe I wasted my time reading this garbage - there wasn't even a "take"!
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DarkHumorRUsGuru
+1 y
Well, this one REALLY doesn't apply to my life.
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AnswerdudeXper 6
+1 y
I've done FFMs and MMFs. The FFMs were with my girlfriend and a girl we both knew. The MMFs were with a guy I knew and a girl we'd just met, and one with my girlfriend and a guy friend of mine. I most liked the FFM ones.
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Deft_maidenMaster
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Good to know
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Druid64Xper 5
+1 y
I would not do MMF, and while this is based on a strong heterosexual preference, this is not an unbalanced answer. The fact is that women have a far higher level of sexual plasticity than do we guys and therefore a far wider comfort zone for same sex sex. Don't believe me? Google it.
The one threesome I had was actually not too bad. I was part of it for about 3 minutes and then could only sit back and enjoy watching my femme du jour and this other girl she brought with her go at each other like minks. Didn't mind a bit. Great visuals.
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WalterRadioGuru
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1. It isn't like in the movies. 2. It can be absolutely fabulous sex for everyone. 3. The girls have to be into each other. 3. a You can't wish a girl to want to have sex with another girl. 3. b The girls need to have bisexual tendencies. 3. c If you are looking for a bisexual girl, date a sorority girl 4. The relationships need to be roughly equal 4. a There can be no hint of jealousy 4. b It doesn't usually work for the "typical" woman in a relationship
I have had two bisexual girlfriends at the same time before and my new girlfriend is also bisexual. Lucky me. :)
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sean1234Guru
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There is no such thing as threesomes, it's pure and undulturated perversion. Some things should not be done ever.
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lacorine197
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... What? If it's been done there IS a such thing..
james_beauXper 4
+1 y
I don't really get threesomes. I mean, won't jealousy come into factor?
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StarfishloverEditor
+1 y
God I hate people and their immorality
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vectro
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God I hate people and their tendency to judge others for victimless behavior.
19blondie76
+1 y
@vectro Oh, there are victims as a result of lack of morality. Use your brain instead of your...
Chief16Editor
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Yeah because threesomes have dramatically improved my love life... said no one ever.
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The_Beav
+1 y
Uh, I don't know about that. That high sex drive Olympian started with a threesome and loved it. Eventually she turned to being a hooker so she could get enough sex to satisfy herself. That happened in 2015 (that it all came out and she was on the talk circuit).
19blondie76
+1 y
@The_Beav That 'olympian' is mentally ill. She has bi-polar. I guess you need to be mentally ill to enjoy this type of behavior. NO ONE in their RIGHT MIND would encourage such risky behavior leading to STDs, HIV and possible physical and mental abuse. NO THANKS!
Axel-
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Threesomes have dramatically improved my love life. Not that there was anything wrong before but it did improve things even more. Brought the two of us even closer. So not sure why you would think a threesome couldn't be beneficial to a relationship.
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Chief16
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@Axel- oh, good for you.
mlts70
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Threesomes are tricky to pull off, but they can be worth it. I have never had a bad one.
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