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[Being_a_good_Indian]

BDSM Involve Contract Agreements

A BDSM contract, also known as a “slave contract”, is a document entered into between consenting adults who wish to negotiate and define their BDSM arrangement / power exchange dynamic. As with any relationship, communication is vital. Writing up an agreement is an excellent way to open up communication between each other. The negotiation process can help your relationship grow as you explore your goals and boundaries together. Personally Good Indian would never indulge in such Agreements.

Breaking Point of Girls

She'll permit you to escalate to a certain point - running your hands up and down her body, say, or taking her shirt off - but not let you get past that point - e.g., her bra comes off easy but she shuts you down every time you go for her pants. This kind of resistance is the resistance you get from a girl who's on the fence about you - she thinks she might want to, but isn't completely sure. Couples who had indulged in sex might be able to answer in better manner.

Girl who's sexually inexperienced. She's only gone to bed with 1 or 2 partners before - or perhaps even none - and even if she really likes you, sex itself scares her. It becomes your duty to accept her resistance and playfully tease her. It can't be considered as rape. IF IT'S 100% resistance it would be considered as Rape or Sexual Assault.

Checkout My Previous Takes.

Different Types of Sexual Assault.

Part - 1

Part - 2

Steps to Take When You Have Been Raped

Birth Control Pills

Birth control is a way for men and women to prevent pregnancy. There are many different methods of birth control, including hormonal contraception such as "the pill." Women take the pill by mouth to prevent pregnancy, and, when taken correctly, it is up to 99.9% effective.

Porn Destroy Relationships

People who think that porn is harmless and simply helps people “get in the mood”, or “relieves frustration”, are kidding themselves. The chemical processes in our brains are really complicated, and when you start messing with them, it’s really difficult to develop a healthy sexuality again. The people who suffered might be able to answer in better manner.

Women, on the other hand, attach more meaning and emotion to a sexual act. Some women, simply cannot fathom why their guy is able to enjoy another woman in that way. "How can I be your biggest desire, when you are pleasured by other women?" - @Stacyzee

Check out her Take.

Why Men watching Porn Hurts Some Women?

Women contribution in Porn Watching

Pornhub found that 71% of its female users visit the portal using a smartphone and are 34% less likely to use desktop computers than men.

80% of women who visit the site opt to use a smartphone or table, compared to 69% of their male counterparts.

78% of millennials, aged 18-34, watch on their smartphone.

53% of women are Android users and 45% are iOS fans.

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5 Myths About Porn

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[Political_dude]

1) Yup. But it isn't a legal contract as many think.

2) I guess you didn't understand breaking point concept. In it, 10+ men rape a single woman and by rape I mean the real one, completely forced and after that penetration for an hour she turns into a slut.


3) Birth control is of no use when it comes to preventing STDs

4) I said watching porn TOGETHER not alone. Just like Game Of thrones

[FadedGrenade]

Didn't someone just write the opposite of this? I'm hella deja vu-ing rn.

[FadedGrenade]

oh nvmd its linked at the bottom. No dude. @political_dude is right, and i disagree with all of your points. BREAKING POINT IS NOT A THING!! THats rape.

[Political_dude]

Thanks :)

[Being_a_good_Indian]

We both are friends. We both keep writing Takes. Previously he had also written.

My Take.
Why are Tall Boys Attracted to Short Girls? ↗

Tall - Short Dating Struggles ↗

Blogging from 3 years on various websites. It's fun to exchange Opinions.

Didn't someone just write the opposite of this?

Probably not.
Women contribution in Porn Watching?

BREAKING POINT IS NOT A THING!! THats rape.

Playful teasing shouldn’t be limited to something that can only benefit your sex life. I had mentioned
IF IT'S 100% resistance it would be considered as Rape or Sexual Assault. When it comes to teasing your partner in the bedroom, there are a couple of important do's and don’ts to remember.

*"Due to my age"*

As he mentioned that he is underage. I treat him like my younger brother. In case he is mentioning something wrong it becomes my duty to guide him.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Hope you had checked attached Takes 1) Different Types of Sexual Assault 2) Steps to Take When You Have Been Raped No Problem @FadedGrenade if you disagree.

[Political_dude]

You clearly don't seem to understand breaking point concept mate. I usually don't recommend porn videos but you should watch Kouncachi:. Broken Princess for the sake of reference.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

@Political_dude Personally I rarely watch porn nowadays. Imagination Power is enough for me. Thanks for sharing. Probably I will and update you later. My Take title is " Fascinating Facts about Sex"

[Being_a_good_Indian]

I checked it out by watching. Generally I do research on such things so it's common for me. With reference to porn Kouncachi:. Broken Princess It works on two way: first, you create a situation where people have de facto only one choice and, second, you make it look like they had several. It's the perfect coercion: it seems like the person freely chose the situation and are therefore responsible for the outcome. You can make the alternative choice very costly or you can make sure people can't access the alternative choice (you hide the required knowledge from them, you teach them to not defend themselves, etc.). In that case It would be considered as rape. *"she'll resist it for some time ( like an hour) "* Like an hour with partner it would not be considered as Rape. It would be considered as teasing in which both are enjoying that teasing. With your reference it was on 3rd Day not like an hour. Good Indian Learned something new by watching and simultaneously done research.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Congratulations for MHO.

[DizzyDesii]

Lol the breaking point and porn are so me

[vishna]

Good birth control facts, did you know half of US pregnancies are unplanned. I think it's awesome when parents are able to provide for a surprise blessing, but seriously... can people be more responsible with their seed? So, I'm happy you included some useful knowledge :) condoms are good too!
www.cdc.gov/.../

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Unfortunately US had many problems. It is Developed Country but it is facing lots of problems like rapes, Sexting, depression, mental disorders and many more. Whole GirlsAskGuys Community is full of people who are freaking out with Problems. Being a responsible citizen of world it becomes my responsibility. India strongly believe in concept of *World is one family"

[BrittBratt2416]

okay.. so people watch porn on their phones... And yes I definitely become detached to a guy if he's watching other women. You might be with me but that's what you truly want in your heart, and since you can't get to these women you've just settled for me is the way i see it.

[BrittBratt2416]

And don't believe people who try to use guilt tactics such as "you're insecure" just cause you won't stand for them jerkin it to someone who isn't you but suppose to be you in video or the bedroom. Those people are usually selfish and just want you to be quiet so they can lust over someone they really want to jump in bed with.

[ps747]

Sorry to let you down but I'll let you know the big majority of man (and probably quite a lot of girls) watch porn regularly even they are in a relationship with someone they love. It's not a question of not being into the other person, it is total different situations. I love to have sex and share sexual behaviours with my girl but I also like to watch porn time to time even know it's fake, there is a lot of make up, etc, etc...

[BrittBratt2416]

@ps747 I'm very well aware but I'm not one of them.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Agree. To understand her either you should ask question here about impact of porn in relationship and women. In past I had seen many Opinions on this site.

[BrittBratt2416]

I just don't get it, why watch someone else get lucky though? Lol

[ps747]

Being_a_good_Indian actually good tip. I will do that question. But I think it's not causing any damage on my relationship since it's different kind of pleasures. It's the same when you masturbate you have different orgasm of the orgasm you have in sex. And when you masturbate alone sometimes you think on your girl sometimes don't. I don't think its a problem or it's any kind of cheating. BrittBratt2416 I respect you and if you know it's a good thing. I like to watch because turns me on but not necessarily because she is very hot, it's all together, works on our minds :p Have you ever tried to watch with your partner? It's also good and when I did that definitely I wasn't appreciating the girl, but all the moment.

[BrittBratt2416]

@ps747 nah I'm just not into it and I don't know if he watch's it.. I don't think he does but I don't know

[ps747]

Ok, it's also good that you have your own opinion :D

[Being_a_good_Indian]

@ps747

One of the most upsetting things when it comes to porn can be finding out that a partner has been watching it in secret. If you catch your partner watching porn behind your back, it doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t love you or find you sexually attractive or that they’ve become ‘an addict’. In some cases husband prefer porn over sex.

Would you marry someone who prefers porn over sex? ↗

Porn over sex? ↗

Read the Experience. In your case there might be building good relationships but when looking at broader perspective it's Destroying. In fact I avoid watching though I am Happy Single.

[BrittBratt2416]

When people before porn over real sex, then that's a problem

[ps747]

Thanks I have read it. I think this are a bit too extreme. I would never prefer to watch porn over sex. One thing is, ok, I need to masturbate so let's watch some porn, another is no sex today because I want to watch my favourite porn star. But probably there is some porn addicts that will prefer and then I agree with you. It's bad for relationship

[GoatofOdin]

I don't think its really that bad if a man is looking at someone else naked because if we like something then we cannot really control ourselves sometimes but to look, beauty is in the world and its acceptable if a guy looks at any woman and if a girl looks at any man as well as members of their same sex. He is not really just settling with you because he cannot have those women, he is just admiring other bodies and really reflects not at all on your quality, there is certainly a problem if he is looking at porn as apart of reality (like its not fake and can all totally happen; this causing unreal expectations) but he is not looking at you any less I am sure.

[BrittBratt2416]

@GoatofOdin so you're saying men have no control of their actions are that weak?

[GoatofOdin]

can you really force down an erection and choke your thoughts? I think it comes down to you not understanding how men are when they feel some bit of attraction sexually, you are honestly find if he has attraction in love and sexual. I think you are rather overthinking a man looking a body he thinks is also sexy, we are not above the species we evolved from like that a healthy fit body is gonna be sexy to even a married man but what trumps that is an actual friend by his side that is beautiful inside and out, you are just being insecure here.

[GoatofOdin]

you are honestly fine if* no "find" there

[skytatoe]

No. That's completely incorrect. When I've watched porn in a relationship, its been because my SO wasn't physically there with me. What excited me was the act in the video, the setting, how it went down, what they did, positions etc... then in my mind I'd substitute the dude for me and the girl for my girlfriend and itd cum in no time. When you're very horny, doing that saves you the effort of setting the scene in your mind (which can make a real difference in time from 10 mins for porn to 30+ without, cause you have to picture everything from A to Z, which requires quite a bit of focus and then deal with distracting thoughts in your mind etc...). So if you want a quickie, porn is the way to go. I would say if you are with your SO and he does this when you can't be together, and you see it as him wanting other women. Unless there's another factor in play, sex is less passionate, he actually looks at others etc... its really you being insecure.

[sammy1537]

The claim that men are at fault for ruining relationships when they turn to porn is an assumption based on outcome and not the cause.
The question should be, why men turn to porn. Here's a few to get started:

1) Fear of being called a rapist. Not real? Let's looks at a real case. A week ago, on this very GAG, a woman was asking if she should report her boyfriend (who she was living and having regular sex with) to the police for sexual assault because when she woke up, he was spooning with her and kinda grinding. Yes, the fear is real.
2) Men have a lot more hormones linked to sex drive than women. A lot more. Why? Biology! It can be hard suppress sex drive on a whim. There is a reason why there is no female equivalent for the term "Blue Balls". They look for a relief.
3) As a couple, women often lose sex drive after pregnancy. Men are left to fend for themselves. It accumulates so when the woman recovers and is active again, the male has years of pent up sex energy. How much of it do you think is relieved by occasional sex?

Then you blame men for turning to porn.

[lilaqua]

With the blue balls thing I think I've actually experienced something similarly. It was less physical and more like mental agony in which I couldn't sleep. Happens a bit.

[GoatofOdin]

on the bdsm one, I never really see myself fit for "the life style" I would love to do things in the bedroom but confine it all to the home and in mutually created situation where both are free. Just cannot see myself really giving all my freedom to someone just for the sexual thrill of it.

[jacquesvol]

Good take!

[beebella]

Fascinating...

[MichaelN1991]

I'd rather masturbate to a photo of a girl I'm seeing and imagine our intimacy. I find that far more pleasurable than porn. Porn are just random girls that are physically attractive not necessarily attracted to.

[geislert]

What are your favorite websites, references, movies, books songs, etc., about LOVE?

I actually have none of my own that I can think of.

[Waffles731]

you know the day fallout 4 released pornhub traffic dropped a total of 10 whole percent

[RationalMale]

Huh. Kind of agree with some of it.

I have heard many times that girls will offer last minute weak resistance on hook ups--I suppose even Gone with the Wind covers that with forced kissing, and then the girl melts in his arms after he overpowers her. Yet to encounter that myself.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74kz5K70iAo

[Chantel77]

Whar the heck did I just read?

[Being_a_good_Indian]

What happened?

[Halucinator]

thanks lol
I don't think I'll need these facts for at least 3-4 years though😂😂

[red_knight]

Who knew

[TheWombRaider]

100 percent of this is stupid... what device u watch porn on means jack shit

[scooogy]

What I find weird about them is that even though they seem to be highly interested in cyber sex, they refuse just as much to engage in the real deal.

[Pauliho]

Wtf is this

[Rosewanda]

I agree with some of the things.

[CT_CD]

Amazing

[Revolver_]

Fascinating