So I met this guy in November. He was nice. We danced a little and then talked for awhile at a club. He was nice enough. I gave him my number and he gave me his. I wasn't really interested in him except as maybe a friend. He texted me the next day saying hi and that he enjoyed talking to me. I texted back that I enjoyed talking to him too.
This is were things get strange. I had just left my husband about two months before this happened. I was not really looking for anything from anyone. I was working a lot because and I really the money. He texted me again two days later. I didn't respond (yeah I know not very nice but I had a lot going on in my life). He texted me again. Nothing important. Just stuff like: hey what's up or hey do you remember me. I still didn't respond. He continued to send me a text every few days for a few weeks. Then he tapered off to a text every week. I haven't responded since that first day in November and yet he still is sending me messages. He sent me a picture mail on Valentine's day (I didn't open it, I just deleted it). I don't want to piss him off by saying anything bad to him but this is getting a little creepy. It has been over 3 months since the one night we talked (nothing else, no kiss or anything) What should I do?
Tell him you don't want him in the meanest way possible trust me it works make him feel like a desperate loser and he'll back off. He'll b pissed but he'll get over it. That's what I do to girls that are annoying it sucks but sometimes you gotta do it.
Why not just text him back, saying you're not interested? If he continues, tell him your "boyfriend" will kick his ass or something. It seems pretty clear that he has nothing else to do but bug you.
You should have told him to back off as early as last November. I had the same experience (in my case, we met at a club, danced and kissed - then we exchanged numbers) and after a week of annoying me through text messages, I told him that "It was just a one time thing. Let it go, and move on. " I know it sounds rude, but he was rude to me too, and says things like "Wanna get naked? " or "So when are you gonna come out an play? "
I guess in your case, don't even text him back. Change your number. If that's a hassle, ask your phone service if they can block his number from contacting you. If all else fails, try to be stern and tell him to back off or you'll file a restraining order. That'll definitely work. :D
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