My partner and I split up about a month ago. He's 42 and I'm 34. We have had a topsy turvy relationship, but now I am really confused about him and what he is doing. So I hope you can help.
When we split up, I admit I did create a lot of trouble, and now some of his friends are no longer friends with him. He said that being with me is too much hassle, yet I have just been diagnosed with major depression.
He was the one who wanted me to get help from the doctors, which I have, yet now he's not here to support me.
Tonight he text me to tell me he'd had enough, but then started asking me if I had been or had fun with anyone else? Then told me it was none of his business. He also asked for photos too, which I thought was a bit strange.
If he says he's had enough, then why ask what I am doing with others or if I am doing anything with others.
I'm not silly, as I know that he has possibly been with other people, but what is the purpose of it?
Just a guess..maybe he's been telling you to get help from the doctors for a while. There comes a time when someone will eventually stop trying to help. Maybe he's hit that time and that's why he's not supporting you. You also said you caused trouble and some of his friends aren't friends w/ him anymore. Thats not cool! That might be another reason. Prob. asking if you had "fun" with anyone else cause he wants to know if your hooking up with anyone else. Perhaps he still wants you, but you've created these road blocks that he can't get around anymore. Not to be harsh, but sounds like he's cutting his losses and trying to move on. This doesn't just happen over night w/ some relationships.
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