How do you read, or tell if a girl just wants sex stuff, like perhaps a fling. Or if she really wants to get serious, or is seriously looking. I'm really curious because I'm tired of playing games, tired of the game playing, and want a serious relationship, like a deep romantic, for real I care/love you relationship. The kind like you see in films the I don't know what I'd ever do without you type of girl.
How do I find such a girl Where do Ya'll Live ? :D
Lastly how do I stay away from the bad ones, what am I looking for, and when should I run like a deer in a sight picture :D.
Thanks in advance all. Any help is appreciated, just really wanna find a girl that is willing to commit. Thanks.
WOW you sound like what I am looking for. I am tired of games as well and want a long lasting love filled relationship. I am in California! :) JK anyways you can usually tell because they have gotten their partying out of their system. Some might be where they want to be in life and ready to settle down. I think all woman want that to meet someone who will be down for them and be all they want in a man. Its hard to know what type of girl you have came across right off the bat. But meeting girls who are going home with dudes the first night are the ones Id say to stay away from...
Thanks, got a chuckle outta the CA thing lol. Made me smile :). Thanks for ur response. Still somewhat confused about the hole thing. I guess it just is what it is....? Idk.. Maybe I'm just thinkin into it too much. - 4 months ago
i don't think you can ever REALLY be sure because we're all so different and so many like to play games
if she's talking about you to her friends having long conversations with you over the phone at night willing to go out of her way to hangout with you
it's pretty much the same about guys just flip it. for instance if I had sex with a guy and afterwards he put got dressed and left claiming he had work the next day which would be a sat then he would only be a guy looking for a fling if there was a guy who is willing to drive 3hours to see me, even when his friends want him to hangout, he's for real.
it's pretty much the same just different scenarios
I think when a girl is truly into you, it's very obvious.
Then again, women are great actors. - 4 months ago
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That, we are;) but he's right, if we're into you for real, it SHOULD be obvious. if some chick wants a fling she won't act attached - 4 months ago
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The many like to play games thing is right. Perhaps one of these day's by chance I'll just bump into one that don't and want's something real :). It just gets me cause I see all these other people that have people, and they have no problem getting serious with somebody else, but it's like when it's me all the girl want's is a fling? idk. So I'm just curious how to avoid that, or them types of girls. Cause I want a serious realationship.. Thanks for ur response tho it was good :). - 4 months ago
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Next time you think she's playing you flip the game and put the ball in yourr court like I ALWAYS say, "we alll want what we can't have" ;) anytime.good luck!! - 4 months ago
What I can say is that it's all in your gut feelings. Sometimes I get vibes from girls that just want sex from me, and get vibes from girls who are willing to commit.
Thanks and I agree your gut can tell you alot, although like the guy said above, women sure can act like a star whenever they need be. I've got burned with that one before once or twice now. So trying to avoid that all together if possible ya know? - 4 months ago
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