How can you tell if a guy is attracted to you/interested?

we can show our interest in so many ways , trust me you can probably keep reading on how we show it for days and maybe weeks lol .

first off before I even give you a couple of things just know that if the guy is nice and then backs off that means he's trying to see if your interested in him too , he dosnt wanna go all the way and then gets stabbed by the girl if she said no , so he shows his interest and backs off so in case you said something he would be like I'm joking .

what we usually do is either talk to you , try to make you laugh , smile at you or simply never run out of subjects when were talking to you , that applies either when your talking in person or on the phone , texts included !

just be nice if the guy is showing one of these signs , no need to freak out and go nervous . also don't throw your self at him , just smile if he flirts and flirt back if your comfortable . if you get the point through to him that your interested he will be doing mostly all of the work ..

hope I helped !
good luck :)

some guys don't want to be blatantly forward. soemtimes they do like to be subtle more so than absolutely direct.

guys who are more subtle will try to look at you longer or when you aren't noticing, they find excuses to talk to you , they hang out with your group more, they smile when they're around you, things liek that

you shouldn't be so harsh on yourself. I wasn't the most attractive in highschool, I was never asked on a date in highschool but after highschool things change. so don't let that slight paradigm rule who you are.

maybe read a relationshp book even. I tried some. idk. or get to know more friends and meet nice guys that way :-)