Girls and initiations, will you tell him?

Well for me to be honest, I would wait for him to make the next move after we've gone through the "i like you" part. If nothing changes and he doesn't want to be more than friends, I move on. Really, what is the whole point of waiting for someone you like to ask you out when you've told each other your feelings towards one another, but not doing anything. I find that pathetic, I mean I am too shy to ask a guy out and never have done that before and wont.

Ok, for me, I probably would be waiting for him to start things, but I am a shy girl.
For your second question, I have a couple answers. I used to live in CT and I have recently moved. All of my guy friends (including the ones I used to like A LOT) have AIM screen names. I tlak to them all the time. Infact, I ask them about any guys problems I am having. I always tell the guys that I care about most that I miss them..especially the ones I used to like. However, where I live now, I would never say that to a guy unless I am going out with him or truly miss him because he is such a close guy friend and I haven't seen him for a while. So yeah, I would most likely keep quiet..
Your third question.. I would sacrafice a little bit. I realize that you want to hang out with your friends just like I wan tot with mine. I do realize that, and probably wouldnt want to spend every second of every day with you. However, if we had a date planned and something just came up, I would be upset..
Hope I help a least a little..

I always let the guy initiate first because I'm shy that's why I cannot stand shy guys. When 2 shy people are together, it actually spells trouble because feelings are bottled up as a result its hard to bring the relationship further.

I will say I miss him depending on the situation if I really didn't see him for a long time.

If I'm in a relationship, I can really go deep into it and spend lots of time with him even sacrificing part of my own social life.

I'd definitely want him to be the one to initiate things at least at first because the thrill of confirming that I'm liked even if I already know it. Plus if a girl is constantly being the one to call she might start to think she's nagging or being a bother and feelings of whether or not the guy's interested because he's not showing any initiative.

Girls try and stay away from saying whiny but I'd tell a guy if I missed him. And if I really like a guy I'll make it a point to cut out time for him, though that doesn't always mean a girl will simply drop her plans and go out with a guy when he beckons. Sometimes having other plans is the truth and not an excuse.

No matter the circumstances, there is nothing wrong with initiating contact with another person. Be yourself, do what you feel is right for you. If a movie is out that you want to see, ask for some company.

There's a line between wanting to be with someone and manipulating to be with someone. Be genuine, and have some fun and you'll avoid the later.

Sacrifice tends to lead to resentment eventually. If you miss him, tell him. No need to keep your feelings bottled up inside but I definitely would not 'sacrifice' my own social life at this point in time.