What should I do?

Sorry to hear of your loss. Some hospitals have a program called "Empty Arms" for people who have lost a child. It is a support group

Time. And sometimes counseling.

Anytime you lose a child, be it accidentally or other means (for me, an abortion due to severe complications with implantation), you feel loss. You feel the absence of what might have been. And that is totally ok and very normal, and men and women can take it very hard. 9 months, in the grand scheme of things, isn't that long.

You'll feel sad, and angry, and you won't know how to cope, especially if you are young. And all you can do is take it day by day, and know that yes, it will get easier with time. You are not alone, as many women go through this every year. Remember that, and take hope from the fact that we have lived through it, and you will as well.

Sometimes, though, it can be just too hard to cope with alone. Perhaps you should consider a counselor or therapist, to talk things through with. They can help you with how you are feeling, and many times help you recover when you feel you can't.

sweetie there's no magic solution. you lost your baby, your going to grieve. Just because you never met them doesn't mean it shouldn't hurt. Allow yourself to cry and I promise in time it will get better. don't bottle anything in. talking about it will help you so much. if you don't family or friends to talk to or they don't know what to say to make you feel better, go to your doctor and speak to them. they might refer you to a therapist which you can sit and talk and cry as much as you want. grief is like a poison, if you keep it in it will consume you. you have to let it out as much as you can. in time it will get better. you are so young, you have so much ahead of you. have hope, if you choose to be strong you can be.