My guy friend the other day told me he loved me twice and then 2 days later told me again I think he was being honest but I'm not for sure
Update: And he also asked me a few days ago what I would do if something ever happened to him he asked me I would even care and I'm like uhh YES! so what does that mean?
5 months ago
You can't really tell from this little information. There should be more info about setting, personality, time, and most importantly, how you feel about him.
I do think that he might be sincere that he holds deep feelings for you, however, it is hard for someone so young to know real love. I've had numerous girls I've liked so much that I've honestly thought I've loved them. Soon after something happened, and I'd find that I didn't really love her. That didn't change the intensity of my feelings for her (I don't feel things lightly - it's always intense) but it did make me more cautious about thinking I love her. I hope he is sincere and that he does really love you, as that's one of the most powerful things in this world. Good luck!
Yeah, well it was during class and he was talking about something and was like ya shelby don't listen to him and then he goes I love you and looked me straight in the eyes when he said it. At first I didn't plan on liking him but now I do; alot. - 6 months ago
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And he said it again several days later? Sounds like, to him, he really meant what he said. Maybe you need to ask him a little more about what he meant. - 5 months ago
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As per update - take comments like that seriously. How did he say that? Did it look like he was hiding some secret? This may be HIGHLY dangerous ground. Does he act depressed at all? Comments like that make it sound so. Tell someone trustworthy, and soon. - 5 months ago
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The subject came up actually because someone at our school had been hit by a truck and so he was asking me if I would care if the same happened to him - 5 months ago
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So he was asking how you feel about him in a roundabout sort of way. Sounds sweet. How did you answer that? How DO you feel about him? It definitely sounds like he feels strongly for you. It's time you decide how you feel and tell him his chances. Have fun! - 5 months ago
There are lots of variables and factors. Some guys say I love you to try and get in your pants. Some guys say I love you, because they have low self esteem and are trying to make sure you don't leave them. And others truly do love you.
Sounds like he had a reality check and realized after the accident of your peer at school that life is too short not to tell the people you care about how you feel. Given the circumstances and the seriousness in nature of the events that lead up to the conversation I have no doubt at all that he meant it. He loves you girl. And you evidently are important enough to him that he deemed you one of the people he needed to share his feelings with. Don't go jumping to conclusions tho, him telling you he loves you doesn't mean that he's in love with you. So don't freak out and start acting all weirded out and start treating him any different than you did before. More than likely, he just wanted you to know. And he needed some reassurance that you care for him too. By the way that you're responding over all this, it seems like you may be searching for some confirmation girly. Are there some feelings there. Wayyyy wayyyy down deep that you've harbored for some time now, scared of messing the friendship up if you admitted it? I don't care what anyone says. My best friend is a guy. And I can say I love him like a brother all day long. But there's always been that thought in the back of my mind. "What if? " That doesn't mean I'd ever act on it or admit it. But it's there. Aside from that. Do you love him and how much would you care if something did happen to him? He's being honest here. If you care about him and love him too, you need to tell him regardless if it's completely platonic.
Was he being sincere when he said it? Or being friendly? Remember there is two types of "love". One when he wants to be your friend and cares about you, and two is when he wants to get you in bed. If he was serious saying that, then he pretty much meant it. And did he say this in person or over the phone?
If he didn't know how to tell you and had a hard time saying it, then he meant what he said!
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