I need to know what kind of heartache to cause to get my boyfriend to see that nothing is guaranteed? His treatment of me is too comfortable and with no effort. I am tired of it.
Update: I am really sorry that I struck a nerve with the guys. But do you see how when you plot to show them how it feels when your hurt the type of response you get. I am not an evil person. I am just frustrated with a lot of mixed emotions. I won't hurt him.
10 months ago
Update: Well I guess I should rephrase the question. If a guy is stubborn and prideful. How do you show him the error of his ways and how he is hurting you?
10 months ago
Sorry, but this is going to sound a little harsh. You don't care for him. I'm not saying that he's right, but I am saying that you can't possibly care for him if you want to manipulate his feelings like that. No guy on Earth will want to be manipulated like that or will appreciate it at all. If you really want to hurt him and make sure your relationship with him ends, carry on and do that.
Okay, that said, here's my advice for what you SHOULD do. You should ask him what is happening with him that makes him act in such a manner towards you. You need to explain to him that he's hurting you, and that it's hurting your relationship with him. He needs to understand what he's doing, and the chances are that he doesn't even realize what he's doing. Basically, you need to talk to him.
Nothing can ruin a relationship more than a lack of communication. That's what is really hurting it at the moment - you're feeling this way, and yet he most likely doesn't even realize it. In fact, unless he's doing something wrong (not that he is, but on the off chance that he is,) he most likely thinks that everything is great between you. Hope my advice helps, but please, really, don't turn to manipulation tactics.
As per updates, the only way you can really do that is to talk to him and tell him clearly how you feel. I hope he appreciates you more after you speak to him. Thanks for considering his feelings in that chat. - 10 months ago
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If you pull that shit, I hope he breaks up with you in the most devastating way possible. That is straight up evil.
In due time you'll learn, just as much as he will, that love and relationships are not games.
If you feel unappreciated then voice your concern to him and be ready to let go of him.
Sacrifices tend to lead to resentment and it sounds like you may be at this stage. The sad truth is that unfortunately there are /no/ winners once games enter the relationship.
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