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Is it just a 'guy thing?'

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xoxoTink (Age:Under 18)     When: 5 months ago
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I'll start off with a cliche. So there's this boy. He is one of my real good friends. It was back in December when he told me that he liked me by writing me a song. I was completely caught off guard and didn't know what to think. I hadn't thought about him like that, since it was only around two months ago when I broke up with my ex.

No problem so far for the most part. We hung out with our friends outside of school, and he was flirting with me. I, beginning to like him, flirted back. We would text for hours and on the occasion when we would talk on the phone, it would be no less than an hour. Then, however, his best friend told me that he liked me too. I didn't like his friend though, I liked him. I told his friend that I didn't like him and that boy got over it quickly. About a week later the boy I did like started to act weird around me. It was only about another week before we was ignoring me altogether. I asked my best friend about it, and she told me to ask him about it. So I did one day after school. He said that he knew what I was talking about but would give no explanation as to why he was acting like that. The next day he began to avoid me.

I left him alone for a week to cool off or whatever. He went back to just ignoring me. But then when I passed him in the hall, he would glance at me. This led up to an occasionally hello. This is where I am at right now. He says hi to me and makes eye contact when he sees me and smiles. But that's it. We also have the same friends, so during break when I go up to them and he is there, he looks at me and walks away.
Everyone I ask tells me that it is just a guy thing. Such an answer, however, does nothing for me. I need to gain some insight. I want him to become my friend again, and then possibly take it from there. Help, please?

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ohanagurl (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
I think the best thing to do would be start talking to him again like flirting with him let him know that you like him because he probably thought or his friend sad was true so he was kinda sad or upset about it right. So let him know that you really like him. Start a conversation with him. Break that ice between you guys. I know you can do this. Just break.
Go girl.
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