My sister and I use to be really close, and she told me when she get her car she was going to take me everywhere. Now that she has the car all she does is spend time with her boyfriend, her best friend and her best friends sister(which is my age). When I ask her to take me somewhere she gets upset but when one of her friends ask, she's happy to do it. Why does she do this too me? Should I be Jealous?
I don't think you should be jealous. Something similar to this happened with my sister and I. I'm the oldest and she's only a year 1/2 younger so we used to be really close until I got my car. L told her the same thing, that I would take her everywhere with me and we'd go shopping and other stuff, but like your sister, I stay out with my friends and boyfriend. I really miss our relationship tho, we aren't nearly as close as we used to be which is really sad because at one point she was my best friend. Maybe your sister's friends are like mine and always asking her to hang out and she doesn't know how to tell them no, or she's afraid she's going to miss out on something exciting. I'm sure she does miss spending time with you she just doesn't know how to make time for both her friends and family. Maybe if you talk to her or ask her to set a day for you two just to spend a little time together it will help, Good luck!
No, what do you expect her to do? How old are you? 14? 13? When a girl is 16, that's when all the parties are and all the guys are asking for dates. And she also wants popularity. You're going to be in the same situation if you have any younger siblings. Or you can talk about it with her
I'm 16 she's about to turn 18 he friends sister is sixteen too i want to get out I hate being in the house all day i have no one else to take me anywhere - 10 months ago
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If your 16 you should have a license. Or where I live you should. Ask a friend to pick you up - 10 months ago
Question Asker
I can't depend on everyone even if I did have a license i still would need a car - 10 months ago
No, don't be jealous at all, she's your sister she will always be there for you and with you. So you will have plenty of time to ride in her new car. Sometimes for sisters friends are their first priority, until she realizes that sisters are more important then friends. Give your sis some time. My sister goes anywhere with her friends and I don't even get to go to the places I want to. which sucks!!
It does seem like she's being a little selfish. Have you tried to talk to her about it? What is your age difference? Maybe she is getting all caught up in her own friends and boyfriend and she just needs you to let her know how you feel. It could be that she doesn't even realize she is doing it.
She seems like a bitch if your 16 and she's 18. And plus her taking basically your friend out ( the other 16 year old ) then she needs slapped upside the head.
My brother is turning 19, and I'm turning 15. He drives me to school everyday. He doesn't mind much. Sometimes he threatens not to take me but I mean. He does.
Sometimes they just get caught up in their lives. You have to respect anything she does for you though. Taking you in the car for a ride to the house next door is something to be appreciative for because it is NOT her responsibility to do that!
But just ask her about it. She doesn't try hurting you by it I'm sure. But maybe she's jealous of you and just doesn't want you to get out of the house or something. :]
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