There is a guy I am into and every time he is drunk he calls me and tells me he loves me and that he wants to date me. I asked him about it in the morning and he said he does love me. And he's just not ready to commit yet because he's been hurt before. When he's sober even he calls me everyday, several times. Usually we hang out and make dinner together (most everyday of the week) and I've spent the night a few times and I have keys to his apartment. He keeps telling me about how he tells other girls he doesn't want them to spend the night and I thought that was his way of committing to me but the other night when I was over he got a picture message from this girl--of herself, undressing (he showed me). And she asked for pictures of him back--he sent some. (He and I are ok with letting people watch us or join in so. In a way it fits with just letting her look but not touch) Granted, he is always the one to seek me out and calls me and invites me over--and he doesn't act that way towards other girls -- they approach him. How does he feel about me? And what should I do--do I ask him what is going on between him and I--and how?
Why should he want to commit to you? He has you any time he wants and has others too! He has the best of both worlds and isn't going to do anything to mess it up! I don't understand what you mean by commitment though, if you let others watch and join in. Webster may be wrong, but his definition of commitment differs from yours.
I mean that it has to be mutual, like if we want another person to watch or join in. And by commit I mean only date me--not mess around with other girls on the side. - 10 months ago
It sounds like he likes you but based on your age range and if he is in the same, he is probably just not wanting to commit. He's young, he wants to have fun. But he knows a good girl when he sees one. I don't see anything wrong with having a talk with him about your relationship. If you like him and trust him, you might as well see if it can work. I would just ask him flat one night casually when you are making dinner. Don't make a big deal about it though, just be like "so what are we doing here. " As much as guys hate that question. You still need an answer.
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