Why do women get so paranoid?

Girlfriends like that are just insecure about the relationship. If there is a trust issue going on, like she can't trust that you won't cheat on her. Then my advice is to just break it off, save yourself and hers the time because it will only get worst in time.

If a girl needs to stalk their man, then that's not a healthy relationship. MOVE ON!

Well, in my opinion, it's more of an insecurity issue. I personally went through it myself and I used to call my ex-boyfriend and always had these thoughts that he was cheating on me. Not only did it drive me crazy but I felt depressed. So I decided that the best thing to do for myself was to just find someone I wouldn't have these insecurities with.

I'm starting to get to know the guy I'm with now and it's going good. I think once you get to know a person these insecurities go away because everyone needs some space of their own and to just have fun without having someone be attached to the hip with you.

Good luck!

if she doesn't trust you u have nothing trust is the inner part of a rellashionship it builds everything.

I don't do that. I mean, if he was drinking or doing something like that, it would make me worry and I would call at least once to see if he was ok. But, the girl you're with probably is insecure and is probably thinking you're out with other girls or something. She just wants to catch you in the act, maybe. If it's bothering you, the two of you should talk it out. If she is insecure then maybe you can do something to reassure her, and you would get less phone calls. Hope that helped!

I think you're talking about insecure girls here. With my guy, I'm like go ahead and go out with your friends and I might call once to see when he's coming home, but that's it! Other than, that I figure he'd call if he wanted to but into his guy's night or something! Maybe it's just that she doesn't trust you. Have you given her any reason not to?

Hmm. I have to say that I've never drove by my boyfriend's house to see if he was actually there or not but I have sent him a text after a while just to see what he's up to. Nothing overbearing like calling him a lot while he's with friends. She may be insecure with herself or like janelov said, maybe she has just had a really bad relationship before. You should just try talking to her and maybe sending her a text every few hours while you're with your friends so that she doesn't feel like she needs to call.

Well I have never done this, nor have I gone paranoid yet. But I think some women do it because they don't trust their guy. Especially the ones that have had bad experiences like Boyfriend cheating on them. A lot of guys are really easy to be drawn into cheating. And yeah if I know that my guy is very attractive I would be even more cautious but not paranoid.

They don't know if they can trust you. It's possible that she's had a relationship in the past where she was hurt, and she doesn't want to be hurt like that again. In the end, she doesn't realize that because she looks for the reason for being hurt, she not only hurts you by her lack of trust, but she will also interpret anything as a lack of faithfulness.