I belong to a health club and it has an indoor whirl pool and pool and an outdoor pool. I see many women come out of the locker room covered in towels and they get into the whirlpool and they are half way into the water before they take the towels off and they are in a two piece suit! What gives? I can understand a woman in a one piece who is older or old and overweight, but these other women have hot bodies in two piece suits who do not reveal themselves! Do they really want us guys to look? Are they drawing attention to themselves on purpose?
Insecurity? Respect for their bodies? A lot of women wear two piece suits for the comfort and flexibility (i.e. different sizes on top and bottom), not because they want to show off their bodies. I can't wear one pieces at all because they are uncomfortable for me. So maybe it isn't that a two-piece is to show off, maybe a two-piece is for other reasons. They aren't trying to garner attention, they are trying to be comfortable.
They are actually self concious and not confident with their bodies hence why they cover up until the very last minute, so they think people will just not notice or look at them or their bodies.
Um. Maybe they are respectable women. At least they respect themselves and their body. Most probably know they look good but they are going to try and FLAUNT IT in your face. Respect that. Maybe you should ask one out. Haha
It's cold, even if the room's pretty warm. The only places I've been (and I was a competitive swimmer for several years) that were warm enough I didn't get cold out of the water were so hot they were stifling (and thus sucked for actual swimming). In a lot of cases, the hot tub is in the same room as the pool.
Some women are insecure, no reason to give them a hard time. I get your point about wearing a one piece compared to a two piece and not showing it off but some people are just shy. And now that I think about it, if I were in a health club, I would do the same thing. I used to get weirded out by random guys looking at girls in the gym. It's kind of creepy in a way, because we are there to work out or swim or whatever, and no one wants to ogled why trying to do so.
Which would be my point, if you do not want to be ogled, wear a one piece non revealing suit. Not reflecting this comment to you personally! I mean them. - 10 months ago
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Well if they already own a two piece suit for wearing to the beach ,etc, why would they need to go buy a one piece suit just so you can't ogle them? - 10 months ago
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But if they know they would get ogled, why not buy the one piece? Also, don't all woman have one piece suits for other occasions? - 10 months ago
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I don't own any one piece suits and I wouldn't go buy one just to go swimming at an athletic club. I would cover up until I got to the pool as you have explained. There is a time and place for ogling, and an athletic club is not a place for it. - 10 months ago
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Unfortunately, that is what you are going to get wearing a 2 piece. I believe you draw attention to yourself, because I guy is going to wonder why you are covering up. - 10 months ago
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Well then I guess that's the way it has to be. I will draw your attention, but then why worry about it from your perspective? Girls will be girls. If you want to look then look, but don't be surprised when we stayed covered up until we get to the water - 10 months ago
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If women are so concerned about being ogled, why wear a 2 piece? I still can not understand this! I would feel very self conscious wearing a speedo. I wear it , but cover it up until I lay out or go into the pool. I would choose not to wear one. - 10 months ago
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Hey Thanks for the input! I am not obsessed by this, and not upset by you, just really trying to understand it. I should realize that men and women are different and we both will not understand each other completely! - 10 months ago
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Yeah I don't think men and women will ever fully understand each other. We all do things, the other sex cannot comprehend. I guess that's just the nature of the beast. - 10 months ago
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A lot of women are just shy about being seen in a bathing suit. You may think she has a nice body but she probably is comparing herself negatively to all the other women around and movie stars and models that we all think look so much better than we do. Your question reminded me of that old song...LOL ...."she wore an itsy bitsy teeny weeny yellow polka dot bikini...that she wore for the first time today...an itsy bitsy teeny weeny yellow polka dot bikini..and in the locker she wanted to stay..."
Maybe the girl isn't a show off. She wears a two piece suit because /she/ likes the way it looks on her but it does not mean she wants to be stared at.
Also, I think women who act quite classy and like ladies also tend to have much more respect for themselves and their bodies. Women who tend to be a bit more insecure, but with a good body, will flaunt it in order to attract attention which gives them affirmation that they are still attractive.
But woman showed know better, the more skin they show, they will be looked at! I still do not understand their rational. - 10 months ago
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Be honest, if you saw a beautiful women would it matter if it was a two piece or one piece? You'd still try to visually undress her. As for rational, this is girls we are talking about, right? :) - 10 months ago
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