I used to hate it, but now I like when a guy teases me. It shows that he craves my reactions and that he's paying attention to me. I also like being in a position where I can feel his heart beat, feeling his heart beat on my back makes me feel that he is alive and knocking to get inside. It make me feel a sense of deeper purpose.
Doing activities together is great too, like putting together a puzzle Also running together, that kind of goes with the heart beat and adrenaline.
I like occasional random touches for no reason. It doesn't have to be overtly sexual, just a little physical contact like brushing my arm or playing with my hair for a second or resting his chin on my shoulder for a moment. Sometimes having a guy try to "annoy" me by tickling or poking is actually pretty fun too.
Making me laugh is always nice too. :) I'm a sucker for clever humor, literary references, and offbeat observations.
There's a book called 'The Five Love Languages' (not sure who wrote it) that details the five ways we express affection. Touch is one of the main ones used. I see that that's your preferred one. Whatever makes you feel special with a guy is great. - 5 months ago
When a guy makes me laugh constantly or so much that there are tears in my eyes and I can't breathe, I instantly have an interest in him. I love to laugh and most girls do, so they love that. I also like it when a guy will show he's thinking about me, like if he gives me a card or tells me how much he misses me even when we'll see each other the next day it makes me feel nice. When he is also considerate and shows that he is truly interested, that is great too. =]
Humour is great - laughter is the best medicine. It can instantly make you feel better in any situation, so I'm not surprised to hear that. Anybody wants to feel better about themselves when feeling down, and humour does just that. Go have a good laugh! - 5 months ago
I love it when a guy can make me laugh. The kind of jokes that make the girl laugh will all depend on her sense of humor. I like compliments too! But not cheesy ones, just honest ones. The simplest thing a guy can do is look and me in the eyes and give me a big smile. That warms my heart every time :)
Guy who will jokes around and willing to share his "secret" with me , also he must be willing to listen to my problems. he gonna be by my side whenever I need him or when he saw that I'm alone , he must accompany me. Cares about me and give my surprise!
I really like it when guys act like they care about you even when you're around his friends. I appreciate it when guys go out of their way to do something that, simply guys don't normally do. I love surprises!
So you want your guy to make you feel really special? Totally understandable and worthy. The surprises - is that as in gifts, or in romantic dates when you least expect it? Like coming to 'rescue' you from friends for a pre-planned picnic (total set up). - 5 months ago
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Gifts aren't necessary all the time. If I am showered with gifts, it may seem like he's trying to buy his way in the relationship. but nonetheless, a small gift occasionally (they could even be homemade) but definitely, romantic dates especially the picnic - 5 months ago
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 5 months ago
When they make me laugh, can look into my eyes without looking like he's thinking about me naked (even if he is), when they are considerate, snuggling of course, can be gentle at times, little things like touch my face, hair whatever ANY of those things, I like when I have a nickname like sweetie or cookie, things like that.
So you like sweet guys? Guys that can make you feel totally special, in other words. Sounds nice. Unfortunately that's a rare quality in many guys. I try to be a little more like that, but my shyness often gets in the way. It can be hard, esp touch thing. - 5 months ago
Point one: It's a sign of respect no guy should be without. Point two: It's good for him to be interesting and keep you engaged. Point three: Guys need to do that - it shows they're interested in you and value you. Good answer, and I agree! - 5 months ago
I like it when a guy is honest and caring with me. I also like cuddling, as lame as it is. I just like for someone to be real with me and make me feel comfortable.
If he isn't honest or caring, what are you doing with him? Good point. I love expressing myself with touch (non-sexually) with people I'm CLOSE to, so cuddling is great. Again, if you're not comfortable and real, why are you with him? Again, good point! - 5 months ago
I like it when a guy treats me with respect, no cursing around me (shows he appreciates me). Doesn't act like a fool in front of his friends or without his friends. Sweet and kind, I like guys that I love hugs!
Respect should be just common decency. I don't know why some guys can think they can avoid it, or why they even want to. What do you think of goofy guys around you? I love hugs too, but rarely give them - touch is a BIG issue for me, but I do care. - 5 months ago
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Hey I LOVE goofy guys. They make my day! - 5 months ago
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
First off, I make dinner for her. then we either rent a movie or go see one. ice cream after that. its a totally relaxed evening so id wear a button up shirt and jeans. the date ends with a hug (by then, we're at that point lol)...
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
She will know about how smart I think I am lol...my sense of humor is the best. and I'm kinda nice. lol...
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 5 months ago
