Secret Flirting?

I would have to say yes he is attracted to her. Why else would he hide it. My question is how do you know about the secret hugging texting, phone calls etc? Did you confront him? There is a friend of me and my wifes I talk to on the computer a lot. I used to not hesitate to tell my wife I talked to her. Lately I have been seeing this person in a whole new light, and I have not been so open to telling my wife when we are talking.

I would say he's attracted to her, why else would he hide it?! How did you find all of this out-just out of curiosity? Did you read any of the texts-what did they say? Were they just friendly stuff or more? If you have already talked to him about this, and still feel like something isn't right-confront her! That's what I would do, but make sure she doesn't know it's coming. Just drop by her house or casually cross paths with her and ask her about it. See what she has to say for herself and go from there!

WTF! He hid it because he knows what he's doing is wrong and totally disrespectful to you. Late night phone calls?! Pics and hugs? Um. Wake up and smell the espresso, there is much more going on here than you want to believe. This is not friendly, harmless flirting and seriously, no good will come out of it. He obviously wants to hook up with her, if he isn't already. Talk to him about it, tell him it bothers you and flat out ask him what the heck is up with that. Would he like it if YOU were doing all this with YOUR co worker? If it were you doing it, do you really believe it's harmless? PUHLEEZE! Nobody acts this way with another person unless they felt attracted to them. There is something really wrong in your relationship when he feels the need to satisfy himself with some other woman. It's also really unprofessional of them. You have every damn right to be jealous and if it were me, I'd break his cell phone over his head, pack his bag and kick him out. What an asshole.