This girl I was dating was doing things to push me away. It seemed to me she was doing things to start arguments and did not seem interested in me when she was around.
On the other hand, that same week I went out with my friends alone and she kept calling me all paranoid. She told me she was worried I was sleeping with someone else and that she really does care for me.
So in one situation I see her rejecting me. In the second situation I see her wanting me.
I am no longer in this relationship because I finally was too confused myself and just stop responding to her. I sent her an email explaining my confusion. I also asked if she was confused and what her feelings were. The response I received was basically
"Regardless of my feelings for you, I can't be with you"
I'm out of this relationship but, I am trying to understand this behavior for my own personal knowledge.
Have any of you ladies been the girl in this situation?
Well, it could be the friends she hangs around. Friends really affect a girl. Sort of like a sphere of influence. I remember when I treated my ex horribly since all my friends hated him and called him names, started arguments, shunned him, and totally disrespected him, but whenever I was away from my friends, I found that I worried about him and always wondered about what he was doing, and who he was seeing. (we resolved things after I got new friends) So, It could be her friends.
Yes! I was with being my EX. I liked my EX and worried about him too much and that made me unstable. me and the Ex had argument a lot. but I enjoyed had argument with him:)I haven't had so much argument with any guys like with him. Sometimes,I expected things too much from him and I guess that was the reason I was that mood all the time.
Yes! Minus the part about being paranoid about my boyfriend sleeping with someone else, I have been in a similar situation as the girl. I was very confused indeed. I'd like to tell you exactly what's going on with her, but unfortunately I can't. I'm not sure what was going on with me in my situations. I've been in this scenario a few times, when I was younger and more naive.
Women are ridiculously complicated creatures. I'm sorry you had to get caught up in all of her confusion. If I were you, and if you two are still on good terms, I would ask her in a week or two if she could give you a clearer answer as to what happened.
I have never treated any one so badly! I think that was her way to end the relationship and what a bad way to end it! If she thinks you are cheating or whatever and you know that you are sincere in the relationship and haven't cheated it is all on the girl! She was probably seeing other guys or fooling around behind your back and then pointing the finger at you in hopes you would not find out. I think she was very insecure but in the process she lost you being paranoid!
Was it an online relationship? Call me old-school, and I am sure some people will correct me, but I believe that is very hard to build an online relationship because it is very impersonal to begin.
I've commented on the other thread that she sounds quite insecure which leads to a roller coaster relationship.
Only online in the sense that she like to text message a lot. Lol She wasn't one to talk about her feelings so the only way I could explain things was through email. - 8 months ago
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