Well, if I thought that I might have feelings for her later on I might, but only if I'm 90% sure I won't lead someone on unless I'm almost positive I could develop feelings for her, but I'm not going to say I love her I'll tell her the truth (I like her). I think it's more than a little messed up to lead someone on and can cause more hurt than telling them you're not interested in them that way. I'd say there are a good portion of guys that'd lie to a girl to either not hurt her or because they want her body, not her.
No, it is a selfish act. Most I believe try to protect how they will feel when the girl will react adversely to the news. A girl crying is my kryptonite. I don't know what it is but when a girl cries I turn into jello and fold.
Besides, leading her on does not do anybody any favors as eventually she will still feel hurt so treat it like a band-aid, don't peel it away slowly. Just yank it off. It will hurt but definitely not as bad as the slow method.
Personally, I wouldn't. I won't act cold to a girl that's being overly friendly, but if she asks me if I'm interested in a relationship, I'd flat-out tell her no. It's much less painful for both parties in the long run.
I think they are split on this issue. I had a friend who convinced this one girl that he was her boyfriend, even though all his friends know he never wanted her as a girlfriend and was only acting to make her feel happy. Some other guys are more blunt, and they'll just say go away.
I wouldn't lie just to protect her feelings, if a girl wants me and I have no interest in her, then I'd just tell her to be my friend.
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