I meet this guy about 4 days ago at my job where I'm a hostess and immediately he showed interest and asked for my number, texted me the next day saying what's up. Then I decided to call him right after and we had a nice long conversation. He works right across the street from me too. The next night which was Wednesday he came at my job after he got off, we exchange a few words then he told me to call him when I get home. Well, I did and he did not answer. Next day he text me again saying what's up, not really saying much, never calls but text what's up all the time. I told him on text that I may get off early yesterday night and that maybe we can do something. He said ok. So, I did get off wk early, called him and he didn't answer again. I'm confused. I mean, he did come on to me, text me but never calls, sometimes won't respond to my text messages. I think he wants me to chase him or something. What do you think? Is he interested if he asked for my number but never calls to initiate a date? It makes no sense.
When a player usually wants to play with a girl, he would act totally different than what this guy has been doing. Texting you and conversing with you the day after he got your number, and the rest of your story all suggest that he is nowhere close to being a player.
As for him texting, it could be that he doesn't know what to say on the phone, or still has a bit of nervousness when talking to you. If he doesn't feel like there is much to say that a phone is necessary, then he probably won't call. I suggest make him chase you, and that will just prolong the time until he initiates a date. That being said, I then suggest that you hint about a date talking to him, or you initiate it.
I did initiate a date that night I said if I get off early we can go do something & even suggested a movie & he said ok all by texting. When I told him I got off early, he never responded to it at all. Then next day texts What's up. So, I don't know. - 9 months ago
I think the key here is that you only met him 4 days ago. That is not a long time at all, especially to be expecting anything out of this guy. If anything, he is just rude for telling you to call and then not answering...and then not calling back. I think it's too early to tell if he is trying to play you necessarily, I think sometimes guys just make bad calls on things. I wouldn't call or text him anymore so you don't look too interested. If he still wants to meet up and get to know you, then let him make the effort from now on. Good luck.
Thats exactly what I'm doing. I saw him just the other day after a week of this stuff & we didn't say anything to each other. I was busy anyways but then on his way out, he pokes me on my side, kind of unexpected so it made me jump, realized it was him & we both smiled at each other then he was gone. Its almost like nothing ever happened. I don't think he was that interested. Plus, when he would text what's up he would also send text messages asking if he could stop by. No, of course. - 9 months ago
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Sounds like he's got an ulterior motive, and it is not to get to know you. He's playing games, I would leave that one alone. - 9 months ago
An older woman once told me that if a guy texts you but doesn't call, then he is trying to play you. Calling shows a bit more effort than texting. Even if he is one of those people who likes to text, he should still return your phone calls. He might just be trying to hit. You know how guys are lately, they want sex from you but they want to put in as little effort as possible. Make him chase you and if he doesn't rise to the occasion then you know what he wanted from the get go.
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