Ever since our first date, he would hardly say anything, very quiet like he did not want to open up to me at all. Well, we started to have a Booty Call relationship and every time he would come over, I would try to talk to him and enjoy his company first before the sex but he wouldn't let it happen like he was trying not to get to know me or want to even talk to me really. However, the sex is great. I just want to talk to him too. You think there is a way? Something I can do to get him to open up to me? I mean he literally tries not to enjoy my company. He is not weird at all. He just acts like he is too good to talk to me. Is it possible?
Just chill. Maybe he likes youfor the sex. Ask him questions, what do you want to know specific. Don't say why you don't open up, or why you don't talk to me, that's too broad, you better off aking, what kind of music do you like or what do you think about monogamy, that type of stuff.
You don't understand. Like when we first met, I asked him all the questions and he was just listening. never asked me a thing. And he is just quiet and then one time I got him to sit down and watch TV with me and something real funny happen on tv and I can tell he was trying to hold in his laugh while I was laughing like he is tryin not to enjoy laughing with me or not wanting to open up and be a person. you know? he has a real stuck attitude and for one, he is a stripper. - 3 months ago
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0hhhhh, that's why, he obviously has not care about what others think of him, he may be like that always in every relationship, that's probabl the way he is, and he is not trying to pretend, so is up to you if you want a man like him or not. - 3 months ago
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Oh, I'm not trying to be with him no more. It is just strictly sex now but I just wish he would open up and chill at first, conversate with me but he barely does that. I know there's a way. - 3 months ago
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Lol, it's fun to see how a girl would date a guy just for the sex, sounds like something I want, lol. But hey open up first, ask some questions, maybe he is already open and he is not hiding anything as you think. - 3 months ago
Question Asker
Its what we both want. at first, I told him I didn't want to do the booty call thing but until I realized he was not my type but great in bed, why not? He already was about sex anyways, him being a stripper. - 3 months ago
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Yeah I'm not surprise - 3 months ago
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