CrazyAce
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Don't be stupid. It's not As bad as you think! A friend of mine went through the same problem, about a month ago. Her mom took it bad at first but she will get used to that fact and even help you through it!
No please don't God loves you! I will take the baby I can not have any I have PCOS my husband is in the US NAVY so the baby will have a great life I can make sure you have everything you need you can even come stay with me until the baby is born I live in New Orleans on a navy base Please email me if you want to talk about it fouts_87@yahoo.com my name is Aleshea
Yes PCOS sucks my step sister. she has to take b-control so she can have normal monthly periods. she also has to take b-control so she can pregnant later in life, and fertility. polysistic ovarion syndrym. tried to spell it the best way I could. I'm sorry you have it. really sorry. its something that you can't get rid of so your testosterone will be going crazy for the rest of your life. my sister can feel your pain. but there is always adoption right. if you need to talk message me. - 5 months ago
N/A
(Age:Under 18)
When: 10 months ago
If you kill yourself, you will be committing suicide, and murder because you will have killed your baby.
NO! Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem! Just have the guts to tell your mom. Yes she will be furious and upset but she will get over it! You will see, everything will turn out just right. Admit to your mom that you made a mistake and that you are truly repentant, our parents understand we are imperfect. Just sit you mom down and let her know or you can write a letter to her if you don't want to talk to her face-to-face! Hope everything goes well!
candeeroo82
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
Killing yourself won't solve anything! If your worried your mom is going to freak out or dis-own you when she finds out that your prego...imagine how she would react if she found out her daughter committed suicide! If your really thinking of your mom you won't kill yourself.
Now, as for being prego, you have options...endless options! Should you choose to keep the child...you will be amazed at how much you can love you will have for him/her! I had my daughter when I was 18 and she is absolutely the best thing that ever happened to me. I can't imagine my life with out her. And remember, Everything happens for a reason.
xaiirrborrnnx
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Ok, definitely don't kill yourself. Thats probably the worst thing you could possibly do to solve the situation. You should probably sit your mom down and explain to her that you are pregnant.. she might take it hard at first but most likely she will endure a lot of empathy for you if you really tell her how scared you were about letting her find out. she will understand.
First of all, don't kill yourself. Second, it's up to you and only you to have an abortion, adoption or keep the baby. Thirdly, Your mother will be upset at first but if you have a strong enough relationship she will forgive you and want to help you (thats what good mothers do). If this is because of your belief system, well suicide is a sin in most religions so........Think of your future, not the end. I sincerely hope you did not kill yourself and hope everything worked out.
JeVousAime
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
I know this question ended ages ago but who cares....
I think induced abortion is FINE.
And nobody can condemn me for that as it's my opinion.
I'm not telling this user what to do, unlike some people who have answered this question
Quote "...You need to really stop thinking about yourself..."
Huh!? Excuse me what ARE you on, to be honest!? That's who she SHOULD be thinking about; her health is paramount to a fetus'.
And it's not "just as bad as going off and killing a little baby" as the fetus is not born yet, or fully developed, it cannot understand anything, it doesn't have feelings, it's just a lifeform! Termination is a good thing. Imagine if you were in a situation if you'd been raped and you had a child who was the spitting of your rapist. How would YOU feel loving the child that looked the same as a man who changed (or ruined) the rest of your life?
Why would you want to kill yourself? I have girls in my family going through what your going through. Yes your mom will be mad at first, that is just the normal reaction. Lots of women have kids at your age and move on to the life they wanted before the baby.
I hope you are for real and have more sense. If you have the baby maybe your mom will support you to send the baby for adoption at a hospital or whatever you feel is right if the baby is just an egg at this point.
Hmm, let me think, let me think.... hell no! why do you not want your mom to know? You are 18 or older, right? So what's the issue?! Don't take your life, you would be taking two.
lala4011
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
No!!! Look, regardless of what kind of relationship your mom and you might have she still loves you unconditionally. I don't think anything would be worse then her finding out that her daughter killed herself because she wasn't able to talk to her. So please just tell her she might be mad at first but it's only because she always wants the best for you. No matter what she will have to accept it and help you through this emotional time.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
