Long. This happened to me this year. This guy and I went to uni together, and started to talk to each other a lot, and hang out together. We found that we had much in common. I actually didn't "like" like this guy at first; I didn't want to unless he liked me that way, too. He sort of grew on me, though, and I did like him. We started hanging out a lot more, and he actually told me that he liked me. He's a really sweet guy, and I've nothing bad to say about him. More time spent together just made me fall hard, and that isn't supposed to happen so soooon (according to a lot of people) I know that it isn't infatuation because I still pretty much feel the same way, even after he's gone. He doesn't know I love him, tho. but I don't know what happened, really. Feelings seemed mutual, and I always let him take the lead, because I didn't want to come off too strong or needy, or scare him away by saying I loved him too soon; plus, I've heard men like to chase or something. I mean, I'm pretty nice, I'm pretty, not saying so with conceit, I'm pretty moralistic with a good head on my shoulders, though a bit shy; I always gave him support whenever it seemed like he needed it, I never judged him, and even though I'm hurt, I still can't say anything bad about him, 'cause I don't know his side of the story, and he's always treated me well. But am I not girlfriend material? I keep wondering if I did something wrong, because by the time next semester rolled around, I heard very little from him. In fact, he bragged to me about how much of a good time he was having with his many friends at uni, whom he never even cared to let me meet. I wasn't jealous, because it's great to have a life, but it bothered me that he never even bothered to see me after being away for so long. technically, we weren't exclusive but I believe that I was lead to think that romantic feelings about each other was something that was shared b/w us. It's as if over a matter of a month, his feelings for me did a complete 360, if his feelings were ligit. It really broke my heart, because that was the first time I fell in love with somebody = ( I mean, I possibly almost uttered those words but you know, everyone says to wait, wait, wait... Once again, I never told him I loved him, but I did do things to show that I liked him, same as he for me (nothing sexual) I'm new to the whole dating thing, so I don't know what to think of this. So why did he just forget about me like that? I keep thinking it was something I did. I just can't understand. Afterawhile, I realized I was the only one trying to keep in contact, so I stopped to see if he'd call me. months perished. it's evident that feelings weren't as mutual as I initially thought, or was led to believe. But I just wanted to know why? Does he even care that he hurt my feelings, if he knows that he's hurt them at all...I've been so sad and confused. wish I hadn't fallen in love in the first place. it hurts to have something thrown back in your face
Update: Thanks you guys. I suppose you're right... moving along then, as best as I can.
7 months ago
its a life lesson so you don't do that again. move on with you'r life and you'll find someone better than him for sure because you sound like a great person.
First of all, it's really nice to see someone can actually use grammar properly! Nice work.
Anyways, I don't know what happened. He may have just lost interest, or didn't think you felt the same. Guys are strange, they don't much like to share or express their feelings. It hurts, but this can be something you can learn from; even though it hurts.
Honestly, if it's meant to be, if he really likes you, it will happen. I know everyone says that but I believe it's true. If not, try and move on :) Good luck.
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