I am vegetarian, I was vegan for awhile and I plan to go back once I am positive I can transition and keep it. My ex had not seen me for a year and I had always wanted to be good friends with him afterwards. He calls me up one day cheerful and chatty telling me he couldn't believe how much I had changed. He wanted to hang out with me as a friend which is what I wanted ever since our breakup. I hang out with him a couple times and then he started giving me crap about my diet and shoving it in my face. I stopped hanging out with him, I have no desire to hang out with him now esp. Since I heard from my girl friends long term ex ( who is crushing on me now) that all he's looking for is sex.
He was such a loser, I don't believe you should bash anyone for their way of life. My current guy friend now teases me about it to an extent and I get a bit annoyed by it sometimes. Does it really matter that much to you that she doesn't eat meat, I mean wouldn't it be to your benefit - vegan girls taste sweeter in oral so why bash?
I would DEFINATELY not bash a girl for that (Then again, I'm vegan). But I feel it's a defense mechanism in omnivores to, even though you're not trying to "convert them," defend their meat-eating. Now, on the ex-b/f side, it might be more than that; but stick with it. No matter what your reasonings behing vegetarianism, they're noble causes (unless you're one of those people who just doesn't like the taste of meat, which I assume you aren't). If you have VEGetariAN friends or if you have veg-friendly friends (which, being friends with you and being a good friend, all friends would be), surround yourself with them. Those are the people you should be around. *sigh* sometimes I think it's only possible for me to be with another VEGetariAN. :( Hang in there.
I really don't care if she is vegetarian or not! As long as she is good to me and loves me as much as I do to her then there should be no problems at all. I mean come on, there is more important things to look into your partner other than he or she eats meat or not! Seems you were dating shallow guys and it happens so don't worry you are so fine and there is nothing like being who you are. On the other hand what harm can do if you do not eat meat? Strange world isn't it!
I wouldn't bash a girl for that. She's entitled to believe in this if she wants to. I don't believe in it (I'd be a carnivore if it was remotely healthy,) but she can. I don't know that this idiot was in it just for the sex, as you don't mention giving it to him. The last comment I don't know about it, being a virgin and all, but that's beside the point - The point is that he shouldn't be a jerk and bash your beliefs.
I would never bash on a girl depending on what she believes in. I think its very hard to actually become a vegetarian/vegan and it takes a lot of power to do so. It would actually be a turn on that someone can stick with something like that. If a guy bashes on you on something like that, he's not worth your time one bit.
PS I love the thing about girls tasting sweeter in oral haha!
ok. me and this guy were together, we broke up and remained friends. I called him one night to talk and he thought he rejected the call, which by the...
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