Do you like it when guys tease you and joke around with you? When is it too much? Also, when should someone else step in and stop a guy from hurting you?
The reason I ask is that some girls are okay with guys joking around with them, but to me it sometimes looks like the girl is starting to get a little hurt, like 'joking' pushes become a little too rough etc.
Yes I'm a playful person and I like to tease and joke around with everybody, but you're right . Some guys will get a little too touchy feely or push too hard or tickle so hard I bruise . I think the best time to step in is if you hear the girl unjokingly yell at the guy to stop . I have to do this all the time and just get laughed at because Navy guys can be real jerks . I've been pushed into walls, tripped, picked up and spun around, locked in closets, and the list goes on . And those same idiots would ask me out a week later like this is kindergarten ! So I've grown to hate it actually lol unless it's my boyfriend, he's nice to me lol
I agree . Sometimes though, it can be a little hard to see when the girl is joking about wanting to stop because they're laughing so hard at the same time . I've seen several girls being picked up and spun around, yet is that always too much ? Again, it's the whole laughing thing . If it is too much, how would be a good way for me to step in ? - 9 months ago
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It depends on the girl really, but I hate being picked up and spun around . And you'll know if a girl is serious or not because I get so pissed that when I'm yelling for them to stop that I'm not laughing . And when they sound firm when they say to stop, not the flirty, whiny, "Nooooooo, stoooop it" lol how Stuart from Mad TV sounds almost lol . - 9 months ago
I kinda think that if its lyk ur ugly or fat or watev DANGER DANGER! but if its lyk cause she's so SPECIAL ;-) and your smiling at her, I think its ok note the "I think" some girls jsut can't take it i have a pretty forgiving sense of humor and I like to joke around if its lyk noone cares what you think DANGER tho
I personally don't mind when a guy teases me jokingly. But when I do mind is when if I tell him something personal and he uses it to his advantage.
But each girl is different it's best if you ask her how she feels about it or tell her if she thinks your pushing she should tell you.
Well I think if the person truly cares about you and see that your in danger then they can step in BUT they have to watch how they do it and depending on the situation.
I'm not really the one doing the teasing... I mean, I can joke around with the best of them, but I would never do that to someone I wasn't convinced liked it, and most certainly not someone that wasn't my girlfriend. To me, it's a little too intimate at times. I'm a little sensitive with touch - even simply tickling would be way too much with a girl that's not my girlfriend or more. I hope that's not too weird. I can see where you're coming from, though. - 6 months ago
Alrite. 1. I love it wen a guy teases me it kinda shows that he notices those little things but only if I can tease back 2. It's to far wen you act serious the entire time and call her mean names that can hurt and be taken the wrong way 3. No one else should have to step in to stop a guy from hurting you so DON'T! 4. Guys shouldn't really do hard joke pushes we are not one of your guy friends. Light wrestling and her kinda punching on you softly is normally a good thing and she will usually have a smile on her face :D
Thanks for the answer. I suppose mutual teasing is a good thing. Being mean is inexcusable. I wasn't talking about that, rather just the joking wrestling or spinning around - that sort of teasing. The one where sometimes it's easy to see and other's not if it's appreciated. Did you mean don't step in, or don't tease to that point that someone has to do that? I don't normally tease anyone other than with jokes, but what do you mean? - 8 months ago
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To question asker sorry was a little unclear bout that I meant not to tease to a point that someone would have to step in glad I was of help! - 8 months ago
Teasing is fun to certain level. If it becomes to physical, too hurtful or just plain mean, then it needs to stop. Someone should step in when things get too physical. Playful taps, bumps or maybe some hair tugging is alright, but lightly guys. Basically just treat us more gentle than you your guy friends. When the girl looks like she is uncomfortable, then she probably is. I would say pay attention to how the girl is reacting to it.
I've gotten into some pretty fun insult fights before, I start to get my feelings hurt when guys start flinging words like; bitch, whore, fat, slut. Otherwise I'm fine with it.
If a guy starts using words like that, slap him. Say that it's from decent guys around the world. No girl deserves that, even if they have acted a little like it in the past. It's just not a decent thing to say. Sometimes fights like the one you mention can be fun. Invigorating in some weird way. - 9 months ago
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I know huh? It makes you feel energetic afterwards. Lol - 9 months ago
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(Age:Under 18)
When: 9 months ago
Teasing to some extent for me is fine. I don't mind getting teased about my personality, since that's just who I am. However, if it turns offensive, like he's starting to seriously hurt me or those people around me, and I tell him repetitively to stop and he doesn't, then that is not ok with me.
I don't mind being teased, but there is a point when you can hurt my feelings. Too much would be when it's about my appearance or making fun of my friends. If you think someone is being hurt, you can step in.
Yea to a certain extent you can't be calling her a slut or tramp or anything like that and if that girl has a boyfriend and your joking around like that your getting your ass beat
If anyone calls a girl that in my presence, whether I'm her boyfriend or not, I don't care how much bigger they are, I will not let them walk away unscathed. It will never be taken as a joke by me. I think that that's far beyond that 'extent' of what's acceptable for teasing. - 9 months ago
I agree. I see girls laughing and going on with some of these guys, but I think maybe when I was asking the question, my mind was really asking what that point is, and what should I do when it is crossed. - 9 months ago
The line is don't be offensive joke around but don't insult her don't comment on her weight either they don't like that either - 9 months ago
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Yeah, remember you can't tease joke with a girl like a dude, and would you want to anyways - don't talk about other girls, don't say anything is wrong with her outfit or makeup or hair - if you want to tease her, tease her about something silly she did or said - and watch the vulgarity and avoid sexual jokes - those both just make you appear low-brow - 9 months ago
(Age:Under 18)
When: 9 months ago
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