Did you ever feel that everyone you cared about would leave or abandon you?

Yeah. Sometimes I still do. It is kind of like a trust issue.

Family. No. Never.

But you mean boyfriends? Yes. All the time.

Because I ask myself what they are thinking and if I really trust them.
I do have trust issues because ill sum it up. 2 of my best friends
snitched on me for EVERYTHING and I got in a lot of trouble.
I trusted them with my life.

Now, I trust only one person.
And even that it EXTREMELY hard for me.




When even one person betrays or lies to you or anything or even leaves.
it gives your brain something else to think up. It makes you scared of
everybody not only that person doing that to you but EVERYONE
betraying you, or lying to you, or leaving you.


With boyfriends. I always think they are going to find a better girl than me; or
they will randomly stop liking me; or they will get annoyed or something like that.





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I don't feel like my Family would ever do that. But, both relationships I had long term ended because of cheating. Its like I wear a sign on my head "Cheaters Apply". I have also lost a lot of friends because of this. So, I now feel if I do make new friends or get a new boyfriend he is going to do the same.

Depression or not but I sometimes feel this way because that's just how it is - your loved ones will leave you alone at some point whether they leave you by death or just like it - I had great friends - they left me! (no reason, they just did) I had a father - he left me because death basically came for him! I have a lot friends right now but I only have one true friend who believes that if by any chance one of us abandons the other to always remember that we had our shares of laugh and sorrow, that we went through a lot together and that to always, cherish those moments and to hold on to! And that's what I do everyday!

Yep. It was an irrational fear though. I was two. We were driving to my uncle's farm just outside of Harare (capital of Zimbabwe, where I lived until I was four) and I was playing around with the car door. Unbeknownst to me, my sister had taken the child lock off. I fell out of the car when the door burst open. When I rolled to a stop, I was sitting up and turned to see the car still moving. I was more worried about the car not stopping (it did at the stop sign about twenty metres away) than I was that I had a golf-ball sized lump on my forehead.

Now I don't have that fear with my family anymore. Now it's just that people will get to know me and not like the person they find behind the walls I erect around my heart. I've been hurt just a few too many times by people that I was supposed to trust - and that was done by abandonment, such as lost friends and, in one case, a mentor of sorts.

I don't believe this is depression as some others alluded to. It all depends on circumstances as I am sure some people have felt like that everything went wrong and then asked what else could go wrong, and surely one thought may have lead to their loved ones.

Even the most optimistic individual will have a day when pessimism will enter their realm. It is part of having a healthy range of emotional feelings. However, if someone has this thought on a daily basis or very frequent basis then they definitely need to asses their insecurity and trust issues.

It has happened to me. I had about five friends that all abandoned me at the same time. What was worse was that they were slowly planning to betray me. I was extremely hurt in the beginning, but I realized that they weren't good for me anyway and I was better off without them.

Yep, because it's the truth, at least for me. It's not depression if it actually happens. Friends, family, lovers, all temporary.

Thats depression

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