Act as if you're the most confident person in the world. Having no confidence is simply being scared of what could go wrong, the more you put yourself in those situations the more you realise that it will be alright! Also if you want someones number, offer yours and they almost always give theirs back ;) x
Small steps. Start simple and build up to the more elaborate. I was once upon a time a shy guy, very shy, but not anymore.
What started to boost my confidence? It was maybe three or four years ago and I had a crush on this girl in one of my classes. She knew I liked her because of the big mouth one of my friends at the time had. She was always nice to me and would sometimes try and start a conversation but being the guy I "was" I could never keep the conversation going.
I got to the point where I said f*** it. I walked up to her while she was standing alone by her locker one day and said three things.
1. Hi [name], want to go out sometime? 2. When is a good time to call? 3. Said bye and walked away.
(I already had her phone number so that helped keep things short and simple)
My heart was racing and my mind was drawing blanks but I knew what I was going to say and it was simple enough to remember. She said yes and I walked away hardly able to keep myself from jumping for joy.
um, I was shy, but I practised , my tip is :first,i stand in front of the mirror and make sure that am looking nice( you can't have self confidence if ur appearance isn't good-i mean clothes, hair, at least they have to be tidy), then talk front of mirror (coz you are shy and can't talk if there are many ppl, so talk with the mirror you will feel better and can move on), then talk with friends, everybody around you like ur neightbors...And try to learn everthing new around u, when you have knowledge, you will feel very confident.
Getting my hair done (trimmed & highlighted) always makes me feel good, also showering & keeping clean everyday, brushing ur teeth, etc.. Dressing in stylish clothing, wearing make-up, etc...This is what works for me :)
Well, with fun music and if you can make yourself sexy, then yes. but if you're so down on your body that it makes you hate yourself more, then you need to try and change your body for the better, then dance around and be sexy. it does help you gain confidence, I'm not really sure why. - 3 months ago
Not too long ago I had a party at my house. The house was packed with people, sangria and music. About an hour into the party a really stunning Canadian/Chinese girl came in with some friends. Me,...
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