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No more calls?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 8 months ago
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Guys can be confusing at times. I been talking to this one guy for over 2 months ( I think ). He used to call me every day. Lately I feel like if he doesn't wanna talk to me no more. We text but its not the same and its been like a week that he doesn't call. Asked him the other night "are you going to call me tonight? So I can wait for your call? " and the first time he was like "i am doing my homework and it's going to take me a wile" so next day I asked again then his other excuse was "my brother is using the phone, but tomorrow for sure" then last night he said "my family is over at my house but I am so sorry". Why would he do that? Does he really not wanna talk to me? I also been noticing he has been blowing off other girls and even in his myspace I and the only girl up there and I an his 1st. Does he like me?

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archer86 (Age:36 to 45)      When: 8 months ago
My question to you is why are you only calling and not dating? If it's a long distance problem then my best suggestion is to find someone else who's closer and has transportation. Even I would get bored from just talking all the time. If you want this man for a relationship, you two must try and arrange for meetings. Phone love does not work for any longer than maybe 2 weeks.
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FranFig21 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
I agree with NEG2000.

Anyway, I was in the same situation just recently. This girl was calling me everyday and as the days passed, the phone calls stopped coming. This made me think that she was losing interest in me. I would ask her, "Hey, why didn't you call me yesterday" and she would respond with, "Well, I was busy and had a lot of things to do" which is true but when she was calling me everyday, she had a lot of things to do too. She just stopped calling me because she stopped liking me and didn't have the guts to tell me. However, your situation maybe different because If he is blowing off to her girls, it may mean that right now he is going through a tough time(personal problems) but If I were you, I would stick with him because If he gets over these problems, he might come back to you. Maybe his mind is clouded right now and he doesn't want to put a lot of burden he has on you. Be patient, but at the same time try talking to other guys or start developing new hobbies that will help you take your mind off him. Good luck.
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NEG2000 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but I agree with Deeplove55. Somehow during your time with him, he's lost interest and is just trying to avoid the situation because he doesn't want to lead you on and feel guilty. Best thing you can do is just let the situation go, even if it hurts a little, and just let him come to you. Honestly, if anything is salvageable and actually has a chance for the future (whether that's friends or possibly more), he's basically saying he doesn't want to pursue things now.

However, one thing you can do to put things back in your corner is to not wait around and get to know a few other guys. Doing that will give you options, won't make you dwell on this guy, and will show him you're not waiting around for him. It might even make him a little bit jealous and make him realize that he misses you, not to mention it makes you more desirable because you have the interest of other guys.

Best of luck!
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Deeplove55 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
It sounds like he just got bored talking to you, lost interest and then you started begging which can really urn a guy off. He's definitely trying to avoid you and don't know how or when to break it off with you. Your on his top cause you were there when yall were talking a lot and now haven't taken it down or maybe don't mind that your his #1 on his pg. This similar situation happened to me. Sometimes people just change after a while.
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