Okay, I'm single. I wear clothes fit for the weather. Don't get me wrong I don't wear really short shorts or skirts and I don't wear halter tops, but I do wear muscle shirts and my jeans fits me exactly sometimes. My cousin recently made a comment about my cleavage and the fact that her husband is around, but this is at my house. My breast just sit up and some shirts that I wear reveal a little cleavage. When men are around I try to be as conservative as possible, but some shirts are just made that way. I'm in no way attracted to my family member's husband and I sure don't have a reputation of being with a family member's spouse or anything of that sort. I feel as though he shouldn't look at me in that way anyway. I don't interact with him besides conversation (ex. We don't have any type of physical contact) so why does she feel this way. If he goes out there will be women with worse than I wear, but how do I get her to realize that I am not the one she should be intimidated by without having to dress like a pilgrim when they visit?
Well its your house first off and if she feels that insecure tell him to stay home. It sounds like she is a little jealous and insecure with her own self. Heck, I love my cousins and they are all hot. Well, not one but that's another story. I am proud of my family. I would not worry how she feels about how you dress, if you got it you got it. As long as you don't have Pop-n-fresh boobs. You know where your bra is too small and it looks like you have four instead of two? I hate that. Clevage good. Pop-n-fresh bad.
Your cousin is insecure, and I don't think she thinks you want her husband, but she's probably fearful of him looking at you the same way he looks at her. I don't think it's anything against you hun but just something your cousin needs to work on herself. I'm an insecure person myself so I see where she's coming from and I know where you're coming from as well. The best thing to do is just talk to her about it and reassure her that you're happy for her and wouldn't do anything to hurt her or jeopardize her happiness.
Thank you..I mean she shouldn't feel like this..they've been married 20 years - 9 months ago
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No problem, some things take a lifetime to heal it seems like but if you keep reassuring her it'll help the way she is towards you at least. - 9 months ago
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