Does he like me? He says he has a girlfriend, how can I change that?

If you proceed it will hurt as you will become more attached to him and then you have to deal with his girlfriend as well. Plus it will effect your work relationship as well which could cause one of you to lose your job. I would be careful if your sending these messages on the company email as most companies have backups tapes that they can go through. If he is willing to cheat on his current girlfriend then its likely that he would cheat on you as well. Do you really want to date a guy who is willing to cheat. It sounds like he just wants someone who he can have sex with without worrying about all the stuff that comes with a relationship. If you did start a relationship with him there is a good chance that he won't pay attention to your needs or really care about how you feel. I don't think you really want a guy like that do you. You should just try and stay away from getting involved any further with this guy as he sounds like he really isn't that nice and there is a good chance that you will get hurt in the end.

Well keep it posted and just work ur magic don't let him cheat on his girlfriend tell him if you ever want to have me you need to be in a relationship with me and no one else :). Resist all his temptations. Letting go is mature and grown up its hard to tell someone to do that but it was the RIGHT thing to do. I'm sure you wouldn't want anyone to do it to you :P

Do yourself a big favour and don't get involved.

You are conscious he has a fiancée and you are pondering if its a good idea to get involved with a man who to your face says he is marrying a woman while he is unsure of his feelings he has for another woman, here is a man knowingly entering a marriage boldly on falsehoods that he needs to address before breaking his soon to be wife's heart before he even has a ring on her finger.
He is obviously a man that is picking mistresses before he is married, talk about disaster in the making.
Do you really want to be the woman he has an affair with that will ultimately be the result of a failed marriage, He is signing his divorce papers before his wedding certificate, does that really sound like a man worth getting involved with?
So far you are just an office flirt that is polishing his ego and believe me you are just the convenient pick, if it wasn't you it would be something else so don't be a fool and think it's because your just that damn special otherwise he wouldn't be stringing his fiancée along and would be with you.
Wake up and smell the coffee, the guy wants his cake and to have eaten it, I predict big trouble if you don't back off because he sounds like one of those guys who wants a woman to be in limbo wondering when he is leaving his wife to live happily ever after not realising the obvious thing of now is the right time or never because if he is that damn sure who he wants then he would be there.
He wants his wife to be but just can't resist the office flirt, sorry but that's all you are otherwise he would never go along with a pretentious marriage that will inevitably end in disaster and his poor fiancée will be the one getting hurt and if you don't back off now so will you be when you realise he won't pick and choose because he can't commit to either of you.

Men think with schlong. That is fact, if he can have a taste of you, and still go back to fiance girl, he may just do that. Only give kisses, hugs and make him feel you care and want him. If he is worth it he will choose you if not he never was gonna anyway. Good Luck
Peace

Why would you want to screw things up between him and his fiance? That's f***ed up.

Good choice.

Do not have sex with him, or you will almost surely come to regret it. Tell him you are highly attracted to him, but that you will not get involved with any man, who is already commited. Let him know, that should things not work out with his current girlfriend, you would be interested in exploring a long-term relationship with him. Otherwise, he's disrespecting you, and you're disrespecting his existing relationship. Demand respect, and you will always get it.

He's very conflicted. He seems to be ok with a FWB kind of thing, but he also appears to have real feelings for both of you. So he wants to marry his gf, but he wants to be f-buddies with you also. That's a bad sign. If you want to help break them up, then go ahead I guess, you might get together, or he might blame you for the breakup.

it cud go either way..i don't think it would help tho...he knows how you feel about him and ur still trying to figure him out but he's obviously going thru something he probly doesn't want to tell you about..idk..but guys are weird and they don't think like us. this is what I would do..he says he's gettn married..i would just mind my own business and do me..if he's feelin you fa real..he will come around..maybe he's indecicive rite now..sometimes people say stuf jus because they don't want to tell you wuts really going on..o and by the way..dont try to change his mind sweety..you don't want to push or force that kind of thing and you definately don't want to manipulate him ( without knowing that your actually doing it) because if you do end up being together, you want it to come naturally..make sure it's not just lust..good luck!

Um, you should not try to break him up with his girlfriend. Don't be that person.